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Changing your emotional state
Your Physiology is how you hold your body
You can change your state by changing your physiology
Shift your posture, head, breathing, speech, face muscles, and move your body.
Demonstrate your Empowered/Confident state
What you focus on is what you attract into your life
Your thoughts are powerful
Focus your thoughts on what it is that you want
Not what you “don’t want”
In the next session we will complete ‘changing your emotional state’ and ‘changing your focus’
The language we use is very powerful
If we use negative language it puts us in a negative state
If we use empowering positive tense language it puts us in a more confident empowering state.
When was the last time you were in a bad mood? How did being in that state affect other parts of your life? We often feel like our emotions are beyond our control, but that’s entirely untrue. In reality, you have the power to learn how to change your mood, and can do so in an instant.
Instead of asking “How can I change my state of mind?” many people simply think they have to live with whatever mood they’re in. They buy into the limiting belief that they are prone to unhappiness or anxiety or that they can only be in a good mood when the outside world is moving as they want it to. The key to unlocking an extraordinary life has nothing to do with outside people or events, though – it’s inside of you.
So, how do you change your state of mind, even when you’re dealing with immense stress? The secret is in moving your body. Emotion is created by motion. In other words, emotions are linked to movement in our bodies. Observe your posture when you are happy, as opposed to when you are sad — or what you look like when you are angry, versus when you are elated.
There’s a difference, right? Your body language sends signals to your brain, and the rest of the world, about how you’re feeling and operating. It is not only in your physical appearance but also in your brain. If you have a poor posture, it only lends itself to poor emotions, or a negative state. Good posture and alertness produce a more positive state.
We all get in negative psychological and emotional states at times, but when you find yourself in that place, change your body and get in state. To change your state of mind, you can do something as simple as adjusting your posture. You can make eye contact with the people around you. You can smile, just to trick your mind into thinking you’re feeling better than you actually are. Eventually, your emotions and mindset will follow suit.
True freedom comes when you accept every moment for what it is instead of trying to control everything and make it adhere to your expectations. Expectations are dangerous for just that reason: if they’re not met, your state of mind deteriorates and you take it out on yourself or others. When you take responsibility for the way your lifestyle, feelings and actions, you have true freedom. When you understand that freedom is a state of mind and that the secret to achieving it is adopting an abundance mindset, you can create a breakthrough in any part of your life.