Exit this survey Struggles with Recovery and Healing Question Title * 1. Male or Female? Male Female Question Title * 2. Are you the unfaithful spouse or betrayed spouse? Unfaithful Betrayed Question Title * 3. If you are the betrayed...What are you most struggling with in your recovery and healing from your partner's infidelity? You may choose more than one answer. Surviving the initial days/weeks after D-day Rebuilding trust Forgiveness Healing the Hurt Better communication about the affair and/or relationship Dealing with your own triggers and memories of the affair Negotiating, redesigning and strengthening your relationship Getting your unfaithful partner to put the required work in to help you heal Restoring emotional and/or physical intimacy Affair proofing your marriage Guidance about divorce and/or separation Other (please specify) Question Title * 4. If you are the unfaithful...What are you most struggling with in your recovery and healing from your partner's infidelity? You may choose more than one answer. Ending the affair Handling the aftermath of D-day Dealing with affair withdrawal/feelings for your affair partner Handling your spouse's emotions Overcoming your own self-destructive emotions Self-forgiveness - Dealing with guilt and shame Inspiring forgiveness from your spouse Restoring intimacy to your marriage What to do to help your spouse heal Winning your spouse back Negotiating, redesigning and strengthening your relationship Affair proofing your marriage Guidance on Divorce and/or separation Other (please specify) Done