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* 1. How old are you?

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* 2. What’s the hardest part about dating today?

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* 3. How worried are you about your financial situation?

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* 4. What’s the hardest thing about finding the right person to be in a relationship with?

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* 5. How much pressure do you think men feel to have it all: A great career, wife, kids, nice place, and a fun social life?

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* 6. How much pressure do you think women feel to have it all: A great career, husband, kids, nice place, and a fun social life?

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* 7. What are men most insecure about in the bedroom?

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* 8. Why do you think men are waiting longer to get married these days?

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* 9. Why do you think fewer men are enrolling in college these days?

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* 10. Would you rather have a female boss or male boss?

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* 11. At what age do most men start thinking about settling down?

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* 12. At what age do most women start thinking about settling down?

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* 13. What is the most important factor for you when it comes to work?

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* 14. Please rank these in order of importance to you, from most important (1) to least important (5):

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Having a successful career
Having great friends
Getting married
Having kids
Owning a home
Achieving personal goals (running a marathon, traveling, etc.)

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* 15. Do you think most men would feel uncomfortable if their partner had a bigger paycheck?

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* 16. How has the recent press about cheating boyfriends and husbands (Tiger, Jesse James, David Letterman, etc.) affected your view of fidelity?

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* 17. Do men still define success as a measure of financial status?

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* 18. Generations ago, men and women stuck to more rigid gender roles. If you could, would you go back to that?

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* 19. Do you think your generation will have happier marriages than past generations?

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* 20. Are men less or more commitment-phobic now compared to previous generations?

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* 21. Do men today have it easier or harder than men of previous generations?

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* 22. Are guys in their 20s less or more ambitious now than they were a generation ago?

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* 23. Rank the following qualities in order of how important you assume they are to women when assessing a man’s relationship potential. (1 is most important, 5 is least important)

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Money
Looks
Humor
Intelligence
Compassion

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* 24. Rank the following qualities in order of how important they are to men when assessing a woman’s relationship potential. (1 is most important; 5 is least important)

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Money
Looks
Humor
Intelligence
Compassion

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* 25. Do women have unrealistic expectations of men?

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* 26. If you could change one thing about women today, what would it be?

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* 27. Are you worried that you partner will cheat on you?

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* 28. Are you worried that you will cheat on your partner?

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* 29. Could you forgive infidelity?

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* 30. How does your sex drive compare to your partner’s?

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* 31. Would it bother you if your partner had slept with more people than you had?

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* 32. If you want kids, would you like your wife to stay at home to raise them?

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* 33. If you want kids, would you rather have a boy or a girl?

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* 34. How would you define “masculinity”?

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* 35. Do you think men still have an advantage over women when it comes to getting ahead at work?

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* 36. Which traits are more important to have when it comes to achieving success?

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* 37. Who makes most of the decisions in your relationship (like what to do at night or where to go on vacation): you or your partner?

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* 38. If your partner makes most of the decisions, why aren’t you more assertive?

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* 39. In general, do you think 20something men or women are more ambitious when it comes to achieving academic and career success?

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* 40. When there’s something you want—from a job to a woman to a cool car—how confident are you that you can get it?

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* 41. The secret thing most women don’t understand about guys is:

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