Understanding what matters most to NICU families

Dear Parent or Caregiver of a Newborn in the NICU,

We are Zina Yudina, PhD, of Babylat, and Mary Coughlin, MS, NNP-NCC-E, of Caring Essentials, two professionals who work closely with families and physicians in neonatal and pediatric care. Together, we are exploring ways to support the nutrition, healing, and well-being of babies who require intensive medical or surgical care — including those born prematurely and those facing medical complexities.

We know that feeding decisions in the NICU are deeply personal, often emotional, and shaped by your baby’s unique needs. We also know that parents hold powerful insights into what feels safe, meaningful, and aligned with their values.

We are gathering parent perspectives on a new concept: gently concentrating a small portion of a parent’s own milk (or donor milk when needed) to create a human-milk–origin fortifier. This idea aims to support growth and healing while keeping your baby’s nutrition as close to fully human-milk–based as possible.

This short survey simply asks how you feel about this concept.

Your participation is:

completely voluntary
anonymous
will not impact your baby's care in any way

Our only goal is to better understand parent experiences, preferences, and values so that future innovations in neonatal nutrition are grounded in the voices of the families who live this journey.

For the sake of transparency, we may share the overall, anonymous findings in a publication or professional setting to help highlight what matters most to NICU parents and to support ongoing improvements in infant nutrition. No individual responses or identifying information will ever be shared.

Thank you for your time, your voice, and your care. Your perspective truly matters — to us, and to future families.

With gratitude,
Zina and Mary

Demographics Section

To help us understand different family perspectives, please answer a few optional background questions. All of these questions are optional and your answers are anonymous.

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* 1. Where are you located?

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* 2. What best describes your child's hospital journey? (Select all that apply.)

Born prematurely

Born at term with medical needs

Required surgery

Feeding or growth challenges

Other (please specify)

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* 3. What is your child's current situation? (Choose the one that seems most appropriate.)

If you are a bereaved parent, please know that we are deeply grateful for your choice to share your experience.

My baby is still in the NICU/pediatric intensive care unit.

My baby is home (less than a year old).

My baby is home (1 year or older)

My baby has died, and I am answering in their honor.

I'd rather not say.

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* 4. During your baby’s hospital stay, what feeding types were used? (Select all that apply)

Expressed milk from the birthing parent

Donor human milk

Cow-milk–based fortifier

Human-milk–based fortifier

Formula

I’m not sure

Section 1 — Your Feeding Values

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* 5. When thinking about feeding your baby in the NICU, which statements feel true for you (check all that apply)

I prefer using my own milk as much as possible.

I prefer using donor human milk over formula if my own milk isn’t available.

I prefer to avoid cow-milk–based products if possible.

I trust my NICU’s guidance on feeding decisions.

I want more human-milk–based options for preterm babies.

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* 6. How important is it to you that your baby receives human milk whenever possible?

0 = Not important

10 = Extremely important

Clear

i We adjusted the number you entered based on the slider’s scale.

Section 2 — Your Awareness of Fortification

(NOT asking about medical knowledge; just perceptions)

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* 7. Before today, were you aware that preterm babies usually need added protein to grow and develop?

Yes

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* 8. Before today, did you know that the most commonly used human milk fortifiers come from cow’s milk?

Yes

Section 3 — The Concept: Concentrating a Parent’s Own Milk

Some hospitals are exploring whether it’s possible to take a small portion of a parent’s milk, gently concentrate the nutrients, and use that concentrated milk as the fortifier — creating a 100% parent-milk–based approach.

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* 9. How do you feel about this idea?

Very positive

Positive

Neutral/Not sure yet

Some concerns

I would not support this idea

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* 10. If you feel unsure or have concerns, what are they?

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* 11. If this option were available, which best describes your preference for your baby?

I would prefer fortification made from my own milk

I would prefer fortification made from donor human milk

I would prefer standard cow-milk–based fortifiers

I’m not sure

It depends (please explain)

Section 4 — Practical Considerations

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* 12. Parents have different milk journeys, and all are valid. If this option were available, how would you feel about having the choice to use a small portion of any amount of your milk (when available) to create a human-milk fortifier for your baby?

I would welcome this option

I would consider it

I’m not sure yet

I would prefer not to

I’d like more information before deciding

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* 13. How much extra effort (if any) would you be willing to invest to help make this option possible?

No extra effort

A little extra effort (e.g., one additional pumping)

Moderate effort

As much as needed

I don’t have enough milk to give extra

Section 5 — Final Feedback

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* 14. In your gut, does this idea feel (select all that apply)

Empowering

Reassuring

Neutral

Concerning

Confusing

Other (open text)

Understanding what matters most to NICU families

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* 1. Where are you located?

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* 2. What best describes your child's hospital journey? (Select all that apply.)

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* 3. What is your child's current situation? (Choose the one that seems most appropriate.)If you are a bereaved parent, please know that we are deeply grateful for your choice to share your experience.

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* 4. During your baby’s hospital stay, what feeding types were used? (Select all that apply)

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* 5. When thinking about feeding your baby in the NICU, which statements feel true for you (check all that apply)

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* 6. How important is it to you that your baby receives human milk whenever possible?

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* 7. Before today, were you aware that preterm babies usually need added protein to grow and develop?

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* 8. Before today, did you know that the most commonly used human milk fortifiers come from cow’s milk?

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* 9. How do you feel about this idea?

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* 10. If you feel unsure or have concerns, what are they?

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* 11. If this option were available, which best describes your preference for your baby?

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* 12. Parents have different milk journeys, and all are valid. If this option were available, how would you feel about having the choice to use a small portion of any amount of your milk (when available) to create a human-milk fortifier for your baby?

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* 13. How much extra effort (if any) would you be willing to invest to help make this option possible?

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* 14. In your gut, does this idea feel (select all that apply)

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* 15. What matters most to you when thinking about nutrition for your preterm baby?

* 3. What is your child's current situation? (Choose the one that seems most appropriate.)

If you are a bereaved parent, please know that we are deeply grateful for your choice to share your experience.