Hi! Thanks for stopping by, I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts!

The original questionnaire was created as research for my book 'Enough To Make You Blush: An Introduction to Erotic Humiliation' (This is in no way a scientific or formal study)

None of the questions are required. You're welcome to share as little or as much information as you're comfortable with. Psychological play is so complex I'd like to hear and share perspectives other than my own. I'm very interested in your experience!

All questions are intended for both sides of erotic humiliation play: the person *doing* the humiliating as well as the person *being* humiliated. Even if your experience is mostly (or entirely) fantasy, please share your thoughts!

My goal is to collect a wide range of erotic humiliation experiences and perspectives to share through my books and website.

All information is private and anonymous unless direct consent is given by you.

* 1. Are you.... (please click all that apply)

* 2. What is your gender identity? (Please click all that apply)

* 3. How old are you?

* 4. Are you a... (click all that apply)

* 5. Do you consider yourself a humiliation fetishist?

* 6. What level of erotic humiliation do you enjoy? (Choose as many as apply)

* 7. Did you have an experience that sparked your desire for erotic humiliation play?

* 8. Have you ever explored erotic humiliation in a personal relationship?

* 9. On a scale of 1-5 (1 being the lowest, 5 being the highest) how humiliating would you rate these activities (NOT “would you do them” but how humiliating do you think they are)

  1 2 3 4 5
Age Play
Anal Training
Armpit Worship
Ashtray Service (swallowing ash)
Being “all powerful”
Being “caught” masturbating
Being “loaned out” for service
Being “loaned out” for sex
Being “owned”
Being “powerless”
Being called “it” or “thing”
Being ignored
Being stomped/crushed
Being turned into a dog
Being led around on a leash
Being turned into inanimate furniture
Being watched while masturbating
Blackmail and “Being Outed”
Bondage & Physical Restraint
Body-image insults
Body modifications
Boot worship
Breath Play
Bukkake (cum on face)
Butt plugs
Clothed Female, Naked Male
Corner Time
Confessing fantasies
Consensual Non-consent
Corporal Punishment
Cum Consumption
Denial of speaking
Dildos (sex toys)
Dirty Foot Worship
Domestic or household chores
Edging (being kept on the brink of orgasm)
Endurance Testing
Examinations & inspections
Eye-contact restrictions
Face Slapping
Financial Domination
Fisting (vaginal or anal)
“Forced” Bisexuality
“Forced” Feminization
“Forced” physical exercise
“Forced” to suck a strap-on
Gender-based insults
Genital Torture
Genital Worship
Group sex
Hair pulling
Hand-jobs (giving/receiving)
Hoods (partial/full)
Intelligence-based insults
Masturbation instruction
Modelling for erotic photos
Nipple play (“nipple torture”)
Obedience Training
Orgasm Control
Orgasm Denial
Over the knee spanking
Predicament Situations
Phone sex
Piss Play – ingesting
Piss Play – golden showers
Protocol Training – submissive positions
Protocol Training - other
Public Humiliation – Kink Events
Public Humiliation – General World
Quizzes and Tests
Race Play
Rough Physical Handling
Ruined Orgasm
Scolding (verbal lectures)
Serving as a maid or butler
Sensory deprivation
Sexual Objectification
Shaving body hair
“Slutty” clothing (private/public)
“Slutty” makeup (public/private)
Small penis humiliation (sph)
Smelly Foot Worship
Sploshing (messy food play)
Spreader bars
Tease and Denial
Time-out punishment
Verbal abuse
Verbal mantras
Watching pornography
Wearing leash & collar
Wearing lingerie/panties
Wearing signs
Writing on body
Writing sentences

* 10. How much would you like to DO these activities? (or do them to someone else!)

  I’ve done it & I loved it I’ve done it & I hated it I’ve thought about doing it but will never do it I’ve thought about doing it & want to someday I’ve never thought about it & don't want to do it
Age Play
Anal Training
Armpit Worship
Ashtray Service (swallowing ash)
Being “all powerful”
Being “caught” masturbating