I ask permission before starting difficult discussions with tweens/teens.
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I use empathy statements when talking with tweens/teens to let them know I understand where they are coming from.
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I am purposeful in using affirmations when talking with tweens/teens.
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I provide multiple options when talking with tweens/teens about a decision that they need to make.
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I use open-ended questions with tweens/teens and wait for them to respond.
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I listen more and talk less with tweens/teens.
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I am deliberate in helping tweens/teens think through and plan for risky situations.
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I plan for alone time with tweens/teens to talk.
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I create opportunities to talk with tweens/teens (examples: baking, walking dog, in the car).
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I understand tweens/teens point of view, even when they don't agree with me.
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I share a range of values with the tweens/teens I work with.
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I talk to tweens/teens about the potential consequences (outcomes) of engaging in risky behaviors.
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