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The Big Fat Sex Survey

PART 1: Sexual Exploration

How many of these sexual activities have you tried?
1.Dirty talk with a partner
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
2.Sharing fantasies verbally
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
3.Sharing fantasies physically
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
4.Reading erotica
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
5.Watching porn with a partner
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
6.Keeping the lights on during sex
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
7.Using a sex toy alone
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
8.Using a sex toy with a partner
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
9.Playing with lubricant
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
10.Trying exhibitionist sexual behaviour (Masturbating for your partner or something similar)
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
11.Trying voyeuristic sexual behaviour (Watching your partner masturbate or something similar)
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
12.Having sex outside the bedroom (like in the bathroom or kitchen)
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
13.Stripping for your partner
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
14.Wearing sexy lingerie or underwear
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
15.Having anal sex
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
16.Experimenting with restraints (tying up a partner or using handcuffs)
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
17.Exploring a threesome or group sex
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
18.Making a sex tape
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
19.Sexting or having phone sex
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
20.Role playing
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
21.Spanking
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it
22.Exploring a fetish
Yes, I love it
Yes, but I don't like it
I'm not sure
No, but I'd like to try
No, I hate it