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ABDL Relationships
Relationship styles
Relationships involving Adult Babies and non-ABDLs can be contentious and difficult for many. This survey is designed to garner as much information as we can about it.
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1.
Are you the ABDL partner, non-ABDL partner, or are both of you ABDL?
(Required.)
I am ABDL
I am the non-ABDL partner
Both of us are ABDL
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2.
How long have you been in a LIVE-IN relationship?
(Required.)
Under 12 months
1-3 years
3-5 years
5-10 years
10-25 years
25+ years
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3.
Is your relationship heterosexual or same-sex?
(Required.)
Heterosexual
Same-sex
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4.
What is your gender?
(Required.)
Female
Male
Transgender
5.
AB PARTNER: How much of your ABDL side is regressive baby and how much is diaper lover/fetish?
Almost entirely regressive Adult Baby
Almost entirely Diaper Lover/Fetish
Mostly AB with a good amount of diaper fetish
Mostly Diaper Fetish with some adult baby
Half and half
6.
AB PARTNER: What is the level of approval of your AB side/behaviour from your partner?
None at all
significant disapproval
ambivalence
Moderate approval
Significant to total approval
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7.
ABDL PARTNER: What is the level of involvement of your partner in your ABDL side?
(Required.)
No involvement at all
Very minimal
Moderate involvement
Significant involvement
Full and substantial involvement
8.
AB PARTNER: What is your level of satisfaction in the ABDL side of your relationship - such as it exists (or not)?
Very dissatisfied
Resigned to what it is
unhappy
Ambivalent
Moderately happy
Extremely happy
9.
AB PARTNER: How long did it take for your partner to
find out
about your ABDL side?
Knew right from the beginning
Still doesn't know
Within a year
2-5 years
5-15 years
15 years +
10.
AB PARTNER: How long did it take for your partner to
be involved
in your ABDL side to some degree?
Was involved right from the beginning
Still doesn't get involved
Within a year
2-5 years
5-15 years
15 years +
Other (please specify)
11.
AB PARTNER: Have you had a previous relationship that had any level of ABDL involvement and participation?
Yes
No
12.
NON-AB PARTNER: What is the level of approval of your partner's AB side/behaviour?
None at all
significant disapproval
ambivalence
Moderate approval
Significant to total approval
13.
NON-ABDL PARTNER: What is the level of your involvement in your partner's ABDL side?
No involvement at all
Very minimal
Moderate involvement
Significant involvement
Full and substantial involvement
14.
NON-AB PARTNER: What is your level of satisfaction in the ABDL aspect of your relationship - such as it exists (or not)?
Very dissatisfied
Resigned to what it is
unhappy
Ambivalent
Moderately happy
Extremely happy
15.
NON-AB PARTNER: How long did it take for you to
find out
about your partner's ABDL side?
Knew right from the beginning
Before he/she realised I knew
Within a year
2-5 years
5-15 years
15 years +
16.
NON-AB PARTNER: How long did it take for you to get
involved
in your partner's ABDL side to some degree?
Was involved right from the beginning
Still don't get involved
Within a year
2-5 years
5-15 years
15 years +
17.
NON-AB PARTNER: Do you have stay-at-home children and do they affect your acceptance of ABDL in the relationship?
No children at home
Presence of children totally removed the possibility of acceptance
Children greatly limited my acceptance of ABDL
Children meant ABDL acceptance was less possible than otherwise
I worked around children to accept ABDL
Children were of little to no impediment to accepting ABDL
18.
How satisfied are you with your current relationship in general?
Totally happy and satisfied
Fairly happy and satisfied
All is pretty good except for the ABDL issue
Its a bit of a struggle
The relationship is in serious trouble.
19.
Do you think the ABDL issue makes your relationship...
Better
Worse
the same with or without ABDL
20.
FOR BOTH ABDL PARTNERS: How well does it work with both being ABDL?
Brilliantly
It has its difficulties but still good.
It is difficult to manage
It does not work all that well
Other (please specify)
21.
FOR BOTH ABDL PARTNERS: Is one of you predominantly 'parental' rather than the other?
Yes
No
22.
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