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Sexplanations Goal Survey
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As a reward for reaching $6,969 on Patreon, I invited people to decide how I spend 24 sequential hours. I sent out a message to Sexpla(i)nauts asking for their requests and received hundreds of responses (see below). While I will do my best to accomplish as many of these adventures as I can, it may be impossible to do them all. I'm almost certain of it. So to help me prioritize, we've created this survey of suggestions. Please mark any and all of the ones that you like most and once I have a sense of what you're all into, I'll do them, on camera, and upload the video. Thank you for making this possible! I hope you enjoy planning out my day ;o)
Sit and have some one-on-one time with friends
Take a break and eat ice cream
Spending 30 minutes reading from a non-technical book you normally wouldn't read, start in the middle of the book
sing a few of your favourite songs
make a post on your own Wikifeet page!
Go play with animals at an animal shelter
Ride a horse
wrestling on a mat with a coworker/friend
Do street interviews regarding sex, gender, psychology
Talk about different kinds of fetishes and kinks people might feel ashamed of and which are likely considered taboo to share with friends and family
Kayaking
Share a “Want, Will, Won’t” of the requests she have received so everyone can get an idea of the boundaries and some inspiration?
Look into the camera and say with a straight face, "Communism will win."
Write an open letter to Doug Ford (that patrons can co-sign), explaining a) why it would be a bad idea to bring sex-ed back into the dark-er ages, and b) what he might consider doing instead. (In case Doug Ford would wisen up beforehand, direct a letter to some other influential person with... sinister leanings, or what one might call it. Or to "whomever it may concern.")
A Skype chat with another sex-positive creator
A day spent compiling examples of *positive* sexual imagery in "pop culture"
Do a sex education class for an hour or so?
Video chat with some Sexpla(i)nauts!
Taste test lubes
Taking a hike to the M w/ Michael Aranda
Make a sexplanations episode in 1 hour
Make shampoo sculptures with your hair
Have a nice time doing something that you personally enjoy
Spend a night in a Sybaris hotel and take advantage of all the old fashioned sexy retreat hotel amenities and enjoy the pleasures of each!
8 hour video of sleeping, recorded in time laps so there's an example of how much an individual moves in their sleep
Have a tasty brunch
Get a massage
Spend some time outdoors (hike, birdwatching, boating, something fun)
Do some yoga or other pleasant exercises
Wrap up with a good movie/pod/etc for some cuddles with a loved one
Anything that feels like it's close to or gently pushing a boundary of what you feel comfortable sharing publicly, would be great
Work on something she's really been meaning to get done, but just doesn't want to do!
Stream-of-consciousness monologue for one full hour.
Give out sex advice on a street corner/campus/public area! Have brief public interviews/dialogues about sex and relationships! (With protection and permission, ofc)
Have a conversation about sex with someone you don't always see eye to eye with!
Take a picnic which could involve discussion of how diet affects sex lives and the claims that this-or-that thing is a "superfood" that would "supercharge" sex lives
Consume at least a small bite of a very hot pepper (ghost pepper, scorpion pepper, etc) and record your reaction.
Teach someone a skill (sexology-related or not) that you're really good at!
Have "Lindsey records a 15-minute ASMR video live"
Showing off any toys you might have would be pretty cool
Do something you're afraid of (bungee jumping or camping in a tent would be mine), something you've always wanted but never, for whatever reason, got a chance to do, and something you're curious about (sexually or not)
Try poutine
Make a sample test of as many ethically availiable alleged aphrodisiacs as possible from all over the world and talk about which of them might have more to them than superstitious speculation and wishful placebo effect.
Go for a hike but only pack items you can buy at Adam & Eve (or equivalent shop)?
Cooking and eating
Go through a drivethru at your favorite fast food restaurant and order ten things you've never tried before.
Half hour making a nice breakfast and another half hour to eat it
Exercises and/or stretching with breathing awareness for as long as she likes
An hour or so doing something productive, another hour or so doing something creative or practicing a skill
Drive to a place you've never been (within reason, say up to~4-6 hours away) and have a coffee from a local cafe
You should do something nice for yourself that you don't get to do very often.
Sleep in a new and unusual place (which is safe and comfortable). Ideally a place which has some relevance/intrigue to your personal passions and/or education
Write and send cheerful, colorful postcards to LGBTQ+ and/or POC people who are incarcerated
Busk! Maybe improvise songs/dances/poems about a sex-positive world? Collaborative possibilities! Any donations can go to a favorite cause.
take a mini vacation: book a two night stay at nice hotel or cabin
Selfie with Stuffed Animals - go to a toy shop, take shots with animals and send to friends or better bring some friends.
go for a few drinks and people watch at a dive for some live music
Retire to hot tub; Bring a drink and do a Q&A with a drink while relaxing, but only respond to questions which give you a happy feel, snooze the serious stuff for another time
give someone a compliment, give yourself a compliment
Take a bubble bath
play some video or board games
An all-day "Ask Lindsey" episode! Where you answer questions while you are doing your other activities for that day? That could combine speed-ups and real-time in an interesting way. Have the same number of questions as a regular Ask Lindsey episode, but instead doing stuff between each question.
How about a simple stop-action or sped-up "Day in the Life" from alarm to lights out? Black-out or blur private moments, but otherwise keep the time-line continuous. Use text overlays and/or voice-over to describe the activity, and maybe background music that changes to fit the activity
May I suggest an ask me anything with your patreons. Maybe a google hangout room for it.
Beyond normal hygiene activities. Something like professional manicure/pedicure, skin treatments, massage.
Bake cute cookies that look like genitalia.
Swing by the DFTBA warehouse
Spend time with your family.
I’d like you to speak to someone close to you about what you want to happen to your body after you die. Just putting bodily autonomy and body positivity into the afterlife, as well as getting closer to someone close :)
learning a new language
Go snorkeling at a nude beach
Paint (polish ?) your fingernails blue. Or purple, or whatever. A nice, relatively mundane task, during which you can hum a tune or talk about the weather or chew gum.
10 hours of trying new things (rock climbing? Bungee jumping? Lunch at a place serving a cuisine you are unfamiliar with? Basically extending the curiosity to non-sexual venues!)
2.5 hours: trying something new sexually with or without a partner(s) (I mean, it is Sexplanations, after all, and sex is good for you!) and winding down for bed
Slip & Slide
skinny dipping
going out dancing or at a class
listen to/learn about some Japanese music, and film your reactions if you haven’t explored much of that
talk about some famous (or just interesting to you) sex scenes from movies, and what makes them feel real or staged or purporting dubious ideas about sex or so on.
Have a sex ed class for your daughters' friends
Go to a sex shop and provide recommendations to people who look confused/embarrassed
Pick out and purchase something interesting in the [sex] shop that you haven't used before and looks like fun
Call a friend or family member you haven't spoken to in a while
Write a thank you note to someone who has helped the show and maybe hasn't received enough credit for it
Have an orgasm (by yourself or with a partner, perhaps using the new toy you bought?). Not that you have to film it directly, of course.
Maybe a 3 course meal made with supposed aphrodisiacs
hug at least 10 people (after asking for consent of course) and telling them to have a great day
Go about your hobbies or interests. Sex-related or not
Try to lick your elbow
Teach us how to cook your favorite meal
Color/draw using anything but your hands to hold the crayons/markers/colored pencils etc
Create your own workout video
Balance a spoon on your nose
Drink lots of water
Put as many marshmallows in your mouth as you can
Dye your hair a new color or MULTIPLE COLORS
Read a poem backwards
Tie-dye something
Eat a healthy number of yummy meals for you.
Blow kisses to the camera.
Massage circle! Or just take turns.
Something you want an excuse to do
Be a guest on Dear Hank & John
Talk about physical changes effecting sex that come with age. Menopause. Testosterone replacement therapy.
Going over favourite videos you've got to make! Like a look back?
Give advice for late-bloomers (30+ year old virgins) who are ashamed/embarrassed about it to get into dating
Drink high caffeinated, cold 0r warm 0r hot drink & not exceeding 200mg/24hrs)
interviewing a cat
Go braless/NO holding up the over the shoulders boulder holder for 2-4 hrs
Water ski
eat sushi omakase style
swing or salsa dance
water some plants, kiss some of their leaves
say hello to a neighbour
give an animal a little cuddle. Just a smol one.
walk somewhere you haven't before
gel your hair all spikey
stick googley eyes to your chin and film your face talking upside down
do/try to do a cartwheel
You could do collaboration videos with major Youtube creators/channels in the education space if all parties are willing.
Talk about male/penis masturbation! You might be interested in doing some on-the-spot research about the male "bator" culture/lifestyle and "solosexuality" and giving your thoughts?
Try on some BDSM/fetish/novelty wear (within your comfort and within SFW reason, of course).
read passages from your favorite books
volunteering part of the time to an activity outside your broad comfort zone? A food pantry, a mens abuse shelter (they are rare), working with refugees. I'd be interested in your reflections on such an experience. How has your training informed the experience?
Karaoke
Use adult toys as instruments; Like using dildos as drumsticks on an upside down pot?
watch a pornographic film outside of your normal interests
speed dating
meet with a person from a kink you don't share and chat
maybe visit the set of a pornographic film being made
meditate
find a neighbor in your area, or just random people on the street/sidewalk somewhere, and ask them about what they think safe sex means
if there's a college or university offering summer health classes near you, you could sit in on a class and text commentary as it happens, on whether or not it's good info or not thorough enough
advertise Sexplanations and sex-positive messages on the ground with sidewalk chalk
go to a restaurant and eat your favorite food while holding a Q and A session, maybe you could invite some friends to go with you and have a Q and A with them.
sharing stories of positive experiences with sex could be fun, with friends or with your crew or just yourself.
Taking a bow for every person who has commented on YouTube or Patreon about how you have helped them.
seeing how many grapes you can fit in your mouth
dancing to a silly song
Livechat for an hour
Film a video wearing a spacesuit (1-2 hours)
Go to the park and pet lots of dogs for an hour at least
Talk about previous topics: "how to have phone sex," "demisexuality," and "antiabortion laws."
Get a tour of your local climbing gym, or another activity-specific gym
go for a walk/hike/bike, do some bird watching. Sit under a tree and listen to the wind blowing through the trees.
Try to visit every sex related place in your city. From sex educators to porn studios to the sexual 'underworld'
a few hours can be spent off the grid and just enjoying world
Could you do something about two people being stuck in a relationship but sexually incompatible
Talk about: How do cock rings work and what are the major benefits
do a simple “Day in the Life of a Sexologist”
Take us behind the scenes of your videos and podcast; talk about your other plans for merchandising and promoting your brand
You could even get personal with us about you own love/sex/lust life
Zip lining
Reading picture books chosen by your local children's librarian
Yin yoga
Finding 10 textures you love at the fabric store
a guilty pleasure type thing which you can treat yourself to
Paint! Paint genitals! Paint florals that look somewhat suggestive!
talk about your five favorite albums.
Read the first volume of Sex Criminals by Matt Fraction and Chip Zdarksy
Visit a chess club
Communicate in Spanish
Hike up a Mountain
Watch a sunrise, sunset, or moonrise? All 3, if you want!
Meditate in a private area outside in the buff (but not if there's a high UV index)
visit a Museum, preferably one relevant to your channel
use the time to create a worldwide event where fans/patreons can meet each other locally or online
Hump Missoula... maybe lapdance/twerk Missoula
Pay/tip for something using only two-dollar-bills
If there is anything on your Want list that you haven't done, do it
Take a couple deep breaths and a moment to relax and clear your mind.
Take time for yourself to get a facial
spend an hour putting together a little zine
gardening
Talk about the positive and negative sides of porn and the porn industry
sex comedy with double meaning and a compilation of the most inappropriate jokes that you guys can come up with
12 hr. live sex ed talk. by Dr. Doe A filibuster of sex education if you will.
Handing out safe sex supplies in a major population area.
Protest at state or federal government for increased sex ed funding and the removal of gag rules and abstinence only education.
skydiving
play an adult game and judge the accuracy of the sexual information
Discuss: what to do when you and your partners' interests do not align, how to deal with incompatible schedules, how food does and doesn't affect sex, self care (sleep, masturbate, exercise, body work?)
Choreograph a short dance, then perform it in front of as many security cameras as you can find (ATMs and banks are a good place for this)
Thoroughly clean/organize/declutter your office, then turn everything you'd normally throw out or discard into a sculpture or other artwork. (If it's mostly paper, oragami or cut-paper art are good choices)
Learn a new instrument
do everyday activities with non dominant hand
wear a shirt that says something along the lines of ask me about sex ed. If anyone follows up on the shirt, you can reply but in song.
incorporate random food item (like sauerkraut) into every meal you eat
work in a random word/phrase (tbd) into each conversation you have
no talking all day
your kids decide your outfit, makeup, hair for the day
take yourself out on a fancy date
do the thing you have been putting off doing.
Get a tattoo
Take a bath (in your swimsuit) in jello or spaghetti or pudding or something else weird
Set up a booth in the park and do sexplanations related facepaint for an hour while answering people's sex ed questions
Buy a hammock and just sit in it for an hour reading a good book
Spend the whole day with a fake mustache on
Have a water balloon fight
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