Welcome to the EXTATICA SEX & INTIMACY CONCERNS & DESIRES SURVEY.

Your input here will help me, Ellen Eatough, serve you better. Your answers will be kept confidential, even if you volunteer your name. Unless you offer your name and/or email address, they will not be connected to your answers -- therefore your input can be totally anonymous.

So go for it—this is your chance to express, from your heart of hearts, what you REALLY want and need in the realm of sex and intimacy.

I’m really interested in what you have to say. Although, due to the volume of requests, I cannot promise to respond to individual email requests, I do promise to read and carefully consider every word you write.

TO SAVE YOUR ANSWERS AND RETURN TO FINISH LATER, click "Exit" in the upper right corner.

IF YOU ARE SHORT ON TIME, just answer questions #1 to 5, the only ones that are required (with the * in front of them). The other questions are optional, but they are of significant value to me and might interest you. When you are done, click "Done >>" at the bottom of the page to receive your gift.

I know your time is valuable, and I sincerely appreciate your taking the time to share your thoughts and feelings with me.

Thank you in advance,
~ Ellen
Ellen Eatough, “The Soulful Sex Coach”

* 1. Gender:

* 2. What is your sexual preference?

* 3. With regard to sex and intimacy, what are you most frustrated or concerned about? (Or what are you embarrassed or ashamed to admit you're frustrated or concerned about.)

* 4. With regard to sex and intimacy, what do you most want to know more about or have answered? (Go ahead and ask...anything goes!)

* 5. What is the decade of your age? Please be honest! ;-)

* 6. Please rate the following in terms of importance to you (even if you don't currently have a partner):

  Extremely Important Important Nice, But Not Important I Don’t Care I Don’t Want This N/A
Hot physical sex
Deep intimacy during sex
Hot physical sex and deep intimacy at the same time
A soulful or spiritual connection during sex
Sensuous/erotic time together without always having sex
Get me/my partner out of my/his/her head and into sex
Have orgasms more easily
My partner have orgasms more easily
Have more powerful orgasms
Experience various types of orgasm
Male multiple orgasm before or without ejaculation
Female ejaculation
Get a partner
Have my partner initiate sex at times or more often
Have my partner engage in more foreplay
Have my partner not need as much foreplay
If we're going to have sex, have my partner start expressing affection, verbally & physically, long before we get to bed
Have my partner be more sensuous during lovemaking
Have my partner slow down and/or not be so goal-oriented

* 7. Are you in an intimate relationship?

* 8. Are you motivated to improve your love life?

* 9. Are you willing and able to discuss with your partner your feelings about wanting to improve your love life?

* 10. Has your partner expressed (verbally or non-verbally) that your love life could be improved?

* 11. The following information is optional. I don't need to know who you are unless you wish to tell me. If you do, I will not share your info.

The questions about your locale are just to give me an idea of the geographic distribution of the respondents.

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