Exit After Anonymity Question Title * 1. Thank you for your willingness to participate in this survey so we can better understand the donor experience. IF you are interested in participating in the upcoming donor group, After Anonymity, please fill out your contact information in Question 1. Phyllis Fortunato, M.Ed., LPC will contact you to confirm group participation. If you are not interested in the group, skip Question 1 and complete the short survey. Your insight and experience is much appreciated. Name Email Address Phone Number Question Title * 2. What kind of donor were you? anonymous/non-ID ID Release unsure Question Title * 3. How long ago did you donate? 20 or more years ago approximately 11-15 years ago approximately 6-10 years ago in the past 5 years Question Title * 4. Have you been contacted by donor offspring? If YES, how long ago and by what means? Question Title * 5. Have you replied to any donor offspring contact? YES, I have replied, but I have NO relationship or ongoing contact at this time YES, I replied to initial contact and YES I have ongoing contact NO, I have not replied Question Title * 6. If you have a current partner/spouse, when did they learn of your initial donation? they were part of my donation decision and knew from the beginning they were informed after donation, but during our relationship they just learned due to the offspring contact I have not yet disclosed Question Title * 7. If you have children, have they been informed of your donation and that there are donor offspring? yes, I disclosed this over the years yes, I disclosed this recently due to donor offspring contact no, I do not know how or when to inform them no, I do not think they need to know no, I do not have children Question Title * 8. Have you had to disclose to others family members that are not your partner/spouse or children due to offspring contact or genetic connections through websites such as Ancestry.com ? Yes No Question Title * 9. Please rank order what the most challenging aspects of offspring contact are for you at this time . 1 2 3 4 N/A procedural - I do not know how to proceed with donor offspring now that I have been contacted N/A 1 2 3 4 N/A relationship stress - the impact this is having on my important relationships N/A 1 2 3 4 N/A role confusion - I do not know who I am to the offspring (dad, donor, relative, stranger...) N/A 1 2 3 4 N/A disclosure - how, when, if I should share with loved ones N/A Question Title * 10. How do you feel about being contacted by donor offspring if your donation was to be anonymous? It has been very upsetting in my life It has been a positive thing in my life I have mixed with feelings and thoughts Other (please specify) Question Title * 11. What would be most helpful to gain from a support/information group? What else would you like us to know? Done