Relational Recovery Inventory —Intimacy Repair Method (IRM)

About This Assessment

This assessment is designed for individuals who have engaged in sexual behavior that has impacted a current or past intimate relationship and who are seeking to better understand and improve their relational functioning.

Your responses will help identify patterns that may be affecting trust, connection, and repair in your relationship.

This is a voluntary assessment, and your answers may be used for research purposes.

This assessment is most helpful when your responses reflect your actual behavior and experience—not your intentions or what you hope is true.

The Relational Recovery Inventory takes approximately 10 minutes to complete.

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* 1. What is your age?

Under 18

18-24

25-34

35-44

45-54

55-64

65+

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* 2. What is your gender?

Female

Male

Non-binary

Prefer to self-describe: ___

Prefer not to answer

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* 3. Which best describes your current relationship status?

Married

Cohabiting / Domestic partnership

Separated

Divorced

Single

Other

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* 4. How long have you been in your current relationship?

Less than 1 year

1–2 years

3–5 years

6–10 years

11–20 years

20+ years

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* 5. How long has it been since your partner first discovered your sexual behavior?

Less than 3 months

3–6 months

6–12 months

1–2 years

2+ years

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* 6. Have you fully disclosed your sexual behavior to your partner?

No disclosure

Partial disclosure

Full disclosure (informal)

Full disclosure (formal process)

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* 7. Are you currently engaged in recovery or treatment?

Individual therapy

Group therapy

Both

Other

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* 8. How long have you been actively working on recovery?

Not currently

Less than 3 months

3–6 months

6–12 months

1+ years