Financial Infidelity: How can I tell it is happening? Question Title * 1. Look into Credit Card Statements (A) There are credit card statements you know nothing about (B) There is nothing being hidden (C) There are credit card statements that were hidden from you OK Question Title * 2. Joint credit cards (A) You have been removed from a joint credit card with no reason (B) A family members wallet has been stolen recently (C) Your partner has more expenses than you do OK Question Title * 3. Missing cash (A) Is your checking/savings account lower than it should be (B) Is there a consistent spending habit from your partner Ex. (Shopping, gambling, self-care, etc.) (C) Multiple withdrawals happening consistently OK Question Title * 4. Mail (A) Your partner is nervous with you around the mail (B) They “filter” through the mail before anyone else sees it (C) Your partner only gets anxious with the mail around holidays/birthdays OK Question Title * 5. Possessions (A) Your partner suddenly has a new phone or tablet that hadn’t been discussed (B) There new appliances in the house (C) None OK Question Title * 6. Financial hardship (A) Your partner is paranoid about balances without looking at or caring about statements (B) Your partner checks the statements line-by-line (C) Your partner does not talk about financial hard ships to you OK Question Title * 7. Money topics (A) Does your partner react with extreme emotion ex. (Tears, Anger, Avoidance) (B) Does your partner react with positive emotion ex. (Trying to figure out the problem)? (C) Does your partner avoid the topic altogether? OK SCROLL DOWN TO ADD YOUR SCORES AND SEE YOUR RESULTS!