Background & Objectives

This questionnaire is designed to collect information about consensual virgin sex experiences from people of all persuasions, races, age, cultural, and religious backgrounds. All information is collected anonymously. Results will be combined, analyzed and used to provide advice, suggestions, and background to people considering becoming sexually active. No names are used to collect data, and people of all sexual persuasions are encouraged to participate in this survey. The objective of this project is threefold: 1) to create a document that will inform people of what they might reasonably expect from their own experience and, 2) help to maximize the positive aspects of their own sexual experience and, 3) Provide parents with a factual document that can be used for the basis of an open conversation with adolescent offspring.

* 1. Your gender

* 2. Your age on your last birthday:

* 3. Race (check one)

* 5. Education (Check One)

* 6. Mother's Education (check one)

* 7. Father's Education (check one)

* 8. Your College Major (if applicable)

* 9. Your age when you had consensual sex for the first time

* 10. Was your first partner:

* 11. Did your partner know you were a virgin?

* 12. About how long had you known your partner before your virgin experience?

* 13. Did you use a condom?

* 14. Did your experience take place spontaneously, or was it planned?

* 15. If your experience was planned, did you share information ahead of time:

* 16. Was the location for your virgin experience selected ahead of time?

* 17. Where did your virgin experience take place?

* 18. Had you been using alcohol, marijuana, or other drugs previous to your experience?

* 19. Were you able to lock a door or otherwise ensure your privacy?

* 20. If you weren't able to ensure your privacy, did you feel apprehensive about being seen or interrupted?

* 21. How long did your sexual experience last?

* 22. Did you feel pressured to have sex, or did you decide for yourself?

* 23. If you felt pressured, where did the pressure come from?

* 24. Was this also your partner's virgin experience?

* 25. Did you reach orgasm?

* 26. Did you feel your were treated respectfully by your partner?

* 27. Below is a list of six possible motivating factors that are sometimes involved in the decision to have sex for the first time. Please select all of the responses that apply to you:

* 28. Please describe your relationship with your partner before you had sex, for example, was s/he (mark all boxes that apply):

* 29. Please describe your relationship with your partner after having sex. Did you:

* 30. Did your relationship after you had sex meet your expectations?

* 31. Please describe your feelings after your first first sexual experience. Were you:

* 32. Some people describe feeling a greater sense of "connection" with the world following their virgin sexual experience. Did you experience such a feeling?

* 33. Are you still in a relationship with the partner you had your first experience with?

* 34. If you were regretful about your first experience, please explain the reasons why?

* 35. Have you ever been sexually harassed?

* 36. Have you ever been sexually assaulted?

* 37. If you were sexually assaulted, was it before or after your virgin sexual experience?

* 38. Are you right-handed or left-handed?

* 39. Would you describe yourself as:

* 40. What could have improved your virgin experience?

* 41. If you could say anything you wanted to your first partner right now, what would it be?

* 42. Was your virgin experience physically uncomfortable or painful?

* 43. Do you have a religious affiliation?

* 44. Would you like to hear about the aggregated results of this survey? If you would, please provide your email address.

* 45. If you could provide any kind of helpful suggestions, advice, or guidance to people contemplating their first sexual experience, what would it be?

* 46. Finally, are there any other comments or suggestions you'd like to add?

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