Slushie Play Consent Form

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BASIC CONSENT RULES: Enthusiastic consent is the only consent I trust. Please ask for it before touching my genitals, kissing my body, or if we aren't already engaged in intimacy or cuddles, groping my tits or ass, namely if naked. I will personally back off from what I'm doing to you if it seems like your feelings may be different to reevaluate. Kissing on the mouth is generally a no-go unless I initiate or give you permission.
RULES FOR PARTNERS: 1. No men, unless I approach you. If we have played in the past before I've made this rule, I will personally inform you if you are an exception. I also do not kiss men on the mouth. 2. No submissives requesting dominance or control from me. I am a sub, with very occasional soft-top switch capabilities in certain kinks. 3. I am also not seeking another dominant beyond our top/bottom dynamic in the bedroom. The priority is play, NOT romantic partnership. I am happily owned and partnered already, and am already speaking with any other potential partners I may be interested in going forward, dependent on our interactions and the comfort of my Primary. TL;DR, Don't ask me to go steady or be your sub, I'll ask you if I want to. 4. Hygiene is mandatory. Regardless of my musk/olfactophilia kink, this does not mean unpleasant scents are my forté. Please shower at least the day before play or sooner, and optionally, deodorize 12 to 24 hours prior. Please do not be offended if I decline to engage in oral sex or various forms of intimacy due to your physical hygiene, as 9 times out of 10, this can be fixed, and it's never meant to embarrass you or judge you.
PROOF: Proof of a clean STD test or prior sexual encounters with me is required for play. The only exception is if you are fully non-infectious via methods like routine check-ups and use of PrEP, and/or there is sufficient protection for our purposes based on our discussion. You will never be judged by me for having something even if we cannot play, so please be honest.
SUBMISSION AND DYNAMIC CONTROL: I am naturally a submissive person. However, I am already an owned sub. What this means, is that while I am happy to engage in submissive behaviors, the actual roles of "established" dominance and submission are off the table. i.e., I don't really do the "two separate dominants" dynamic. What this boils down to is what I call "dynamic submission" or dynamic control. This is where, for the purposes of our sexual encounter, I will submit in the receiving role of our play if desired, as normal. However, as soon as that switch is flipped and play is over, any play dynamics are over as well. We are back to play partners, and any non-bedroom behaviors or extended aftercare is from the perspective of a top and bottom only. DO NOT TRY TO OWN ME, I AM HAPPILY OWNED.
PERMANENT MARKINGS AND SCARS:
Tattooing, scarification, branding, and other forms of permanent/extended marks or changes, are not allowed. These are reserved for my Mistress and for long-established play partners that I have clarified with her about being allowed to do so. BITES AND HICKEYS: No hickeys on the neck, shoulders, or clavicle. None at all, please. If I want to engage in puppy play and one or both of us treats the other like a chew toy or stim, that's one thing. But hickeys in such possessive and and risky places are a personal privilege between me and my Mistress. In places like the tummy, thighs, legs, back, ass, etc., please just ask first. Repeat: general biting (without breaking skin) and scruffing on the neck are fine!!!~ Simply not hickeys or any other possessive markings in places I deem off limits.
SAFE WORDS:
I use the Traffic Light system. For me, this entails:
Green: Hell yeah! Keep going!
Yellow: Where we're at is beginning to tread dangerous water. Please don't escalate from here, and if I say Yellow again, ease up a bit.
Red: Play is over immediately. Establish if aftercare is desired before engaging.
For mute scenarios (gags/petplay/nonverbal scenarios/etc.), I will use the classic "tap out" system. One to two firm taps on your person or the bed says to check in (this will be displayed prior to play so you know what it's like). Frantic tapping means play is over immediately. Establish if aftercare is desired before engaging.
AFTERCARE:
Aftercare can consist of any combination of the following, with hydration and food being a must: cleaning each other up/off, massages, verbal praise, quiet cuddles, dark rooms and/or isolation, and/or nonsexual stimulation (soft conversation, games, etc). Please communicate prior to and after play to see if any are preferred.

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