Hello and Welcome to our Male Sexuality Survey!!

This anonymous survey is for married (or previously married) men and women who would like to share their thoughts about male sexuality. We hope to gain as much insight as possible, and hope you will answer as many questions as you can--as truthfully as possible. This survey could take 20-30 minutes depending on how much thought you put into your answers. We appreciate whatever time you can give to this survey even if you don't answer every question. We realize some of these questions are pretty intimate and personal. We understand if you might not know how to answer some of the questions and/or want to skip some. We hope you'll just do what you can. 

This information will be used in an upcoming book by marriage counselor and sex therapist, Laura M. Brotherson, LMFT, CST. If you make it all the way through this survey you'll learn the name of this upcoming book and will be able to get additional information about it. :)
Demographics

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* 1. What is your gender?

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* 2. What is your current age?

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* 3. Which of the following best describes your ethnicity? (Please select all that apply.)

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* 4. What is the highest level of education you have completed?

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* 5. What is your approximate current yearly household income?

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* 6. What is your current relationship status?

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* 7. How many years have you been (or were you) married? 

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* 8. Religious Affiliation

Your Sexual Relationship

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* 9. On average how often are you sexually intimate with your husband/wife?

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* 10. What would be your preference for how many times you are sexually intimate with your husband/wife?

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* 11. What are some of your favorite things about your current sexual relationship?

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* 12. What in addition to intercourse itself are some of your favorite things about sexual intimacy with your wife/husband?

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* 13. What are some areas or aspects of your sexual relationship that you wish were different?

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* 15. [MEN ONLY] What would your wife say you often want or ask to do that she’d rather not do sexually?

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* 16. [WOMEN ONLY] What does your husband often want or ask to do that you'd rather not do sexually?

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* 18. [MEN ONLY] What, if any, changes have you noticed in your level of sexual desire? To what do you attribute the change?

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* 19. [MEN ONLY] What does sex mean to you personally? How does sex affect you and your marital relationship?

Defining Healthy/Unhealthy Sexuality

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* 20. In your opinion, what are some key characteristics of a healthy sexual relationship?

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* 21. In your opinion, what are some key characteristics of an unhealthy sexual relationship?

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* 22. If you were explaining to someone (i.e. to your son) what healthy God-given male sexuality was, how would you explain it?

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* 23. How would you define compulsive, addictive or unhealthy male sexuality? How would you describe the difference between a God-given, strong, healthy sex drive and compulsive male sexuality?

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* 24. How would you define pornography? How do you think that affects a marriage?

Other Definitions

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* 25. What does it mean to bridle one’s sexuality? And how does a man mastering his sexuality matter in a healthy sexual relationship?

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* 26. In your opinion, what is the difference between lust and passion in a healthy sexual relationship?

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* 27. How do you think agency fits into a healthy sexual relationship?

Other Factors

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* 29. [MEN ONLY] How often would you say you seek out pornography?

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* 30. [MEN ONLY] How often would you say you engage in solo masturbation?

Please be sure to click on the "DONE" button below to submit your survey! :) 

THANK YOU so much for taking the time to respond to this anonymous survey on male sexuality. This information will be used in an upcoming book by Laura M. Brotherson, LMFT, CST. If you would like to be updated about this survey information or the upcoming book Knowing HIM Sexually, please click the link to subscribe to our newsletter at StrengtheningMarriage.com. Your email is not connected in any way to your survey.

Please feel free to share this survey with others who might like to share their insights on male sexuality. If you would like to share any additional thoughts please feel free to email us at info@strengtheningmarriage.com.

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