Are you Bi Yourself? Question Title * 1. If you are Bisexual - but are not OUT, please say why. I'm attracted to the same sex, but all my experiences thus far have been with the 'other' sex I'm in a committed (gay or hetero) relationship and I don't want my partner to know I don't think too much about labels. It's no one's business how I identify My family wouldn't understand TBH - I think it's just a phase I'm going through. I don't think anyone would believe me. I already identify as a gay/lesbian, even though I'm actually bi because it's not worth the drama Other reason - please specify OK Question Title * 2. If you are OUT ... how did that pan OUT? I've always known and I've never tried to pretend I was anything else. It is still taking me a while to really own it, so I'm only out to a select few. Once I fully realised I was bi, I made a point of coming out to everyone. This is part of who I am. please put own answer here OK Question Title * 3. Bi or Pan? As far as I'm concerned, bi IS pan. It's all one umbrella for me. I'm strictly a binary bi I'm Pan. The handle 'Bi' doesn't feel like my truth. I'm still deciding. OK Question Title * 4. The Community - select all that apply I love being part of the LGBQIA+ community and attend events and feel welcome! I have attended events and I do feel at home, but I don't really feel seen. I felt more welcome in the community when I had a same sex/queer relationship There's a Bi community - join us. We have cookies. There's a Bi community? News to me. I'm not interested anyway. I prefer the gay crowd. I might be out - but I tend to stick with the hetero herd. Other (please specify) OK Question Title * 5. What flavour of bi sounds most like you? 50/50 down the line. romantically and sexually I am mainly romantically attracted to the same gender but occasionally also get crushes on the opposite gender I'm mainly romantically attracted to the opposite gender but occasionally get crushes on the same gender I'm mainly sexually attracted to the same, but occasionally romantically drawn to the other. I'm mainly romantically attracted to the same but occasionally sexually attracted to the other. I realised I was bi late in life. So, while I am out, I am yet to act on it. I probably won't I do, happily identify as bi, but I'm actually at least 90% gay/straight. It's all about chemistry then. Other (please specify) OK Question Title * 6. Question for New-bis I feel really confident and excited about exploring all parts of my sexuality I'm confident with what I have experienced previously, but really shy putting myself out there with the other DO YOU HAVE QUESTIONS OR COMMENTS? ADD THEM HERE OK Question Title * 7. How do you feel about Bi-Erasure? I have no idea what that means I'm aware of what it means, but I don't care I get angry and complain about it whenever the phrase 'turning gay' or 'turning straight' is used instead of acknowledging bisexuality exists but I don't do anything major I'm very vocal about it and make a point of bringing it up in conversation to challenge stereotypes. Other (please specify) OK Question Title * 8. How do experience biphobia? I often cop people's insecurity about whether or not I can keep it in my pants. I resent it, but I kind of understand it. I wouldn't date a bisexual. I've experienced bullying/been ostracised by the gay community for being bi. I don't. That just happens in the movies. OK Question Title * 9. What about harrassment? part A Straight people flirt with me all the time. It's fucking annoying. So called straight people hook up with me - but just for the experience. It's fucking annoying. I'm a chick, so obviously guys will try and angle for a threesome and it's fucking annoying Couples hit on me and IFA OK Question Title * 10. What about Harrassment - part B I sometimes try to pick up straight singles - I just love the conquest I've been known to proposition conservative couples - it's open season as far as I'm concerned. I've been known to co-erce, talk my partners into group sex actually...there was this one time... OK DONE