Work and Relationships

Description:

This survey was designed by Psyched in San Francisco, a downtown psychotherapy center. Dr. Robert Solley is spearheading this work in collaboration with Traci Ruble, MFT and Andrew Groeschel, MFT. Please check out Psyched Magazine and our Huffington Post Blog here.

Who should take this survey?

This poll is for individuals who are in a relationship with one other person.

How long will it take?

It should take approximately four minutes to complete.

Results?

The results of this survey will be crafted into a part 2 article on our current work culture and its impact on our relationships to be published on Psyched Magazine and Huffington Post. If you care to read Dr. Robert Solley's first article on work and relationships you can find it here on overwork and families.

Please share this survey with friends, colleagues and family.

Warmly,

Traci Ruble, Psyched Director

info@psychedinsanfrancisco.com

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* 1. How many hours a week, on average, have you been working at your job in the last 12 month period?

Less than 10 hours per week

10-19 hours hours per week

20-39 hours per week

40-49 hours per week

50-59 hours per week

60-69 hours per week

70-79 hours per week

more than 80 hours per week

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* 2. How many hours a week, on average, has your partner been working at his/her job in the last 12 month period?

Less than 10 hours per week

10-19 hours hours per week

20-39 hours per week

40-49 hours per week

50-59 hours per week

60-69 hours per week

70-79 hours per week

more than 80 hours per week

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* 3. If you have children, record the number of children you have. If you have none, please enter "0" for none.

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* 4. How many hours a week do you both spend (total) tending to home and/or family (household chores/bills, cooking, tending to children, school related activities, social plans, relationship health, sex etc.)?

Less than 10 hours

10-19 hours

20-39 hours

40-49 hours

50-59 hours

60-69 hours

70-79 hours

more than 80 hours per week

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* 5. My overall level of satisfaction in my current relationship is...

	Ready to leave.	Dissatisfied	Middle	Satisfied	Very satisfied.
Satisfaction level:	Satisfaction level: Ready to leave.	Satisfaction level: Dissatisfied	Satisfaction level: Middle	Satisfaction level: Satisfied	Satisfaction level: Very satisfied.

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* 6. The number of hours that either or both of us works has the following impact on the quality of our relationship:

No impact

Strong negative impact

Moderate negative impact

Moderate positive impact

Strong positive impact

No impact

Strong negative impact

Moderate negative impact

Moderate positive impact

Strong positive impact

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* 7. What is true about your relationship. Check all that apply.

I feel like my partner knows who I am.

I feel like I know who my partner is.

I look forward to spending time with my partner.

I am satisfied with the quality (independent of quantity) of our sex life.

I am satisfied with the quantity (independent of quality) of sex we have.

None of the above

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* 8. How many times a week do you have the following kinds of fights?

	1x / week.	2x/ week	3x / week	4x / week	5x / week	6x / week	7x/ week	8+/ week	N/A
Hurtful fights without resolution.	Hurtful fights without resolution. 1x / week.	Hurtful fights without resolution. 2x/ week	Hurtful fights without resolution. 3x / week	Hurtful fights without resolution. 4x / week	Hurtful fights without resolution. 5x / week	Hurtful fights without resolution. 6x / week	Hurtful fights without resolution. 7x/ week	Hurtful fights without resolution. 8+/ week	Hurtful fights without resolution. N/A
Hurtful fights with resolution.	Hurtful fights with resolution. 1x / week.	Hurtful fights with resolution. 2x/ week	Hurtful fights with resolution. 3x / week	Hurtful fights with resolution. 4x / week	Hurtful fights with resolution. 5x / week	Hurtful fights with resolution. 6x / week	Hurtful fights with resolution. 7x/ week	Hurtful fights with resolution. 8+/ week	Hurtful fights with resolution. N/A
Connecting fights that help me know my partner more.	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. 1x / week.	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. 2x/ week	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. 3x / week	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. 4x / week	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. 5x / week	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. 6x / week	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. 7x/ week	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. 8+/ week	Connecting fights that help me know my partner more. N/A

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* 9. What regular things do you do to deliberately tend to the quality of your relationship?

We have regular date nights.

We check in with each other regularly to connect and know how each other are doing.

We take regularly scheduled vacations together.

We schedule regular sex.

We attend couples counseling.

We are physically affectionate with hugs and kisses.

We make a point of saying hello and greeting each other when we see each other.

We make contact with each other in the middle of the day.

Other (please specify)

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* 1. How many hours a week, on average, have you been working at your job in the last 12 month period?

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* 2. How many hours a week, on average, has your partner been working at his/her job in the last 12 month period?

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* 3. If you have children, record the number of children you have. If you have none, please enter "0" for none.

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* 4. How many hours a week do you both spend (total) tending to home and/or family (household chores/bills, cooking, tending to children, school related activities, social plans, relationship health, sex etc.)?

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* 5. My overall level of satisfaction in my current relationship is...

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* 6. The number of hours that either or both of us works has the following impact on the quality of our relationship:

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* 7. What is true about your relationship. Check all that apply.

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* 8. How many times a week do you have the following kinds of fights?

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* 9. What regular things do you do to deliberately tend to the quality of your relationship?

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* 10. If you would like to be emailed a copy of the survey results please enter your email here. (optional)