Oh My - How Orgasmically Empowered Are You?

Oh My, How Orgasmically Empowered are you?

A general and quick survey of orgasmic triggers and 'ease' with one's orgasmic self. If you have anything to add or any questions please email me at reach@insiderose.com

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* 1. The first time You heard the word "Orgasm"?

My Mother told me when we had 'that talk'.

On a TV Show/Movie

Sex Education at School

A woman's magazine like Cosmo or an Online Article

Porn

Don't recall

Other (please specify)

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* 2. Age at first Orgasm

Under the age of 10

Between 10 and 13

Between the Ages of 13-15

Between the age of 16-19

Early to mid 20s

Mid to late 20s

Early to mid 30s

Over 35

Over 40

Older than that!

I haven't had an Orgasm yet and I am over the age of 18.

I haven't had an Orgasm yet and I am over 30.

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* 3. The Circumstances of my first orgasm

Alone, while masturbating

With someone else, while masturbating

with someone else, during intercourse (with extra stimulation)

with someone else, during intercourse (without extra stimulation)

During Oral sex.

While Kissing

Having my breasts fondled

In my sleep

It just 'happened' one day, and I wasn't even being touched.

Other (please specify)

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* 4. The way I experience orgasm usually:

I'm quite orgasmic and experience no difficulties having an orgasm every time I engage in sexual activity

I'm super orgasmic when I'm alone...but I rarely climax with other people

I only climax when I'm with someone else, I don't masturbate.

It's a lottery - I do climax, but not all that often and it's not something I feel I have any control over.

I need a patient lover. I will absolutely have orgasms, but they need to take their time with me.

I'd probably come more often with a lover, if I didn't feel so embarrassed about it taking so long. If it takes too long, I give up.

I have fabulous orgasms, each and every time and I don't care how long it takes. Actually, the longer it takes for me to get there, the better! What's the rush?

I only climax if I masturbate while we're having intercourse, or before or after.

more often than not, I'll end up masturbating in private after he/she's gone to sleep

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* 5. Who's responsible for your orgasm?

When I'm with someone, I just let them take control and if they get it right, YAY! if they don't then, they're a dud lay

I'll give them the opportunity take control, but if they do something I don't like or get off on, I speak up and give them some tips

I am. If he doesn't make any moves to please me, I'll speak up and give guidance - clearly he has no experience or his previous partners have faked it.

I don't understand the question -either the other person 'gives' me an orgasm or not. Why would it be my responsibility?

My vibrator

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* 6. How do you feel about making noise?

I'm very silent and still, I need to concentrate.

I make noise when I come, but not much during foreplay

I'm very vocal, in that I make noises to encourage my partner if he's doing something right, in lieu of using words.

I hate being quiet! I'm noisy throughout, by way of encouragement and I scream when I come. Guys get off on that.

I make a lot of noise but it's all because I've discovered the power of vocalisation and how it enhances the orgasmic experience. My moans and screams enable me to have a more 'thorough' orgasmic experience.

I'm not even aware I make noise. But apparently I do. I just lose myself in the moment and don't think about what sounds I'm making.

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* 7. How many orgasm triggers do you have?

It's always sequential. I need a certain amount of kissing, and fondling...and then clitoral stimulation will get me the rest of the way - always the same way.

It's always sequential. I need a certain amount of Kissing and fondling and clitoral stimulation, but then I need intercourse to get me the rest of the way - always the same way

Sequence is not of any consequence, I just come when someone plays with my clit

Sequence is not of any consequence, I just love intercourse

Any combination of things, but I need my clit to be part of it.

Any combination of things, but I need breast stimulation and/or kissing to be part of it

Any or all of the above, plus G Spot

Any or all of the above, plus A spot

Any or all of the above, plus Anal play

Any or all of the above, plus anal sex

Any or all of the above, plus the 'U' spot!

Any or all of the above, but I can also come without being touched or kissed. Less is more with me.

Only if I'm watching porn simultaneously

only if I'm fantasising simultaneously

Only if I'm feeling overwhelmed with emotional connection.

I'm still not sure if I am having orgasms or not

Other required trigger (please specify)

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* 8. Where did you get your education about sex?

My parents

friends at school

school sex ed lessons

porn - or pornographic literature

Trial and error

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* 9. Do you talk about sex with your friends and compare notes?

Yes

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* 10. How do you feel about this survey?

Actually I was quite stunned by some of the suggestions, maybe I don't know as much as I thought

Nothing has surprised me - in fact I could have written this survey myself.

I'm curious to know where this leads - and if I can have access to information regarding how to become more orgasmically empowered!

I would have liked to have added a few of my own options - this didn't cover my experience at all.

I'm a bit confused as to why this was needed. Isn't a woman's orgasm a man's job?

I'd like to answer a similar survey about body image

I'd like to answer a similar survey about emotional and spiritual connection

Please add any questions or comments

Oh My - How Orgasmically Empowered Are You?