Oh My - How Orgasmically Empowered Are You? Survey

1.The first time You heard the word "Orgasm"?

Other (please specify)

4.The way I experience orgasm usually:

I'm quite orgasmic and experience no difficulties having an orgasm every time I engage in sexual activity

I'm super orgasmic when I'm alone...but I rarely climax with other people

I only climax when I'm with someone else, I don't masturbate.

It's a lottery - I do climax, but not all that often and it's not something I feel I have any control over.

I need a patient lover. I will absolutely have orgasms, but they need to take their time with me.

I'd probably come more often with a lover, if I didn't feel so embarrassed about it taking so long. If it takes too long, I give up.

I have fabulous orgasms, each and every time and I don't care how long it takes. Actually, the longer it takes for me to get there, the better! What's the rush?

I only climax if I masturbate while we're having intercourse, or before or after.

more often than not, I'll end up masturbating in private after he/she's gone to sleep

5.Who's responsible for your orgasm?

When I'm with someone, I just let them take control and if they get it right, YAY! if they don't then, they're a dud lay

I'll give them the opportunity take control, but if they do something I don't like or get off on, I speak up and give them some tips

I am. If he doesn't make any moves to please me, I'll speak up and give guidance - clearly he has no experience or his previous partners have faked it.

I don't understand the question -either the other person 'gives' me an orgasm or not. Why would it be my responsibility?

My vibrator

6.How do you feel about making noise?

I'm very silent and still, I need to concentrate.

I make noise when I come, but not much during foreplay

I'm very vocal, in that I make noises to encourage my partner if he's doing something right, in lieu of using words.

I hate being quiet! I'm noisy throughout, by way of encouragement and I scream when I come. Guys get off on that.

I make a lot of noise but it's all because I've discovered the power of vocalisation and how it enhances the orgasmic experience. My moans and screams enable me to have a more 'thorough' orgasmic experience.

I'm not even aware I make noise. But apparently I do. I just lose myself in the moment and don't think about what sounds I'm making.

9.Do you talk about sex with your friends and compare notes?

Yes

No

10.How do you feel about this survey?

Actually I was quite stunned by some of the suggestions, maybe I don't know as much as I thought

Nothing has surprised me - in fact I could have written this survey myself.

I'm curious to know where this leads - and if I can have access to information regarding how to become more orgasmically empowered!

I would have liked to have added a few of my own options - this didn't cover my experience at all.

I'm a bit confused as to why this was needed. Isn't a woman's orgasm a man's job?

I'd like to answer a similar survey about body image

I'd like to answer a similar survey about emotional and spiritual connection

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Oh My - How Orgasmically Empowered Are You?

Oh My, How Orgasmically Empowered are you?