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* 1. Client Name

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* 2. Which of the following is the best definition of Coercive-Controlling Domestic Violence?

Intentional use of tactics like intimidation and/or violence by one partner against another that
causes the person to fear for their safety.

A partner using violence to gain control over a situation when feeling helpless, scared or at risk of being harmed.

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* 3. Regarding anger, are the following statements True or False?

	True	False
Anger is an unhealthy, unnatural human emotion and it should be repressed at all costs.	Anger is an unhealthy, unnatural human emotion and it should be repressed at all costs. True	Anger is an unhealthy, unnatural human emotion and it should be repressed at all costs. False	Anger is an unhealthy, unnatural human emotion and it should be repressed at all costs.	Anger is an unhealthy, unnatural human emotion and it should be repressed at all costs.	Anger is an unhealthy, unnatural human emotion and it should be repressed at all costs.
Anger is often a secondary emotion meaning that anger is sometimes a cover-up for another emotion such as hurt, fear, or insecurity.	Anger is often a secondary emotion meaning that anger is sometimes a cover-up for another emotion such as hurt, fear, or insecurity. True	Anger is often a secondary emotion meaning that anger is sometimes a cover-up for another emotion such as hurt, fear, or insecurity. False	Anger is often a secondary emotion meaning that anger is sometimes a cover-up for another emotion such as hurt, fear, or insecurity.	Anger is often a secondary emotion meaning that anger is sometimes a cover-up for another emotion such as hurt, fear, or insecurity.	Anger is often a secondary emotion meaning that anger is sometimes a cover-up for another emotion such as hurt, fear, or insecurity.
Anger is a signal that something is not right, that something needs to change.	Anger is a signal that something is not right, that something needs to change. True	Anger is a signal that something is not right, that something needs to change. False	Anger is a signal that something is not right, that something needs to change.	Anger is a signal that something is not right, that something needs to change.	Anger is a signal that something is not right, that something needs to change.
If others are angry at us, we must have done something wrong.	If others are angry at us, we must have done something wrong. True	If others are angry at us, we must have done something wrong. False	If others are angry at us, we must have done something wrong.	If others are angry at us, we must have done something wrong.	If others are angry at us, we must have done something wrong.

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* 4. For each of the things listed below, indicate if the behavior is an example of Power and Control or Equality in a relationship:

	Power and Control	Equality
Emotional abuse- verbal or emotional put downs, name calling, humiliation.	Emotional abuse- verbal or emotional put downs, name calling, humiliation. Power and Control	Emotional abuse- verbal or emotional put downs, name calling, humiliation. Equality	Emotional abuse- verbal or emotional put downs, name calling, humiliation.	Emotional abuse- verbal or emotional put downs, name calling, humiliation.	Emotional abuse- verbal or emotional put downs, name calling, humiliation.
Shared responsibility- mutually agreeing on fair distribution of work, making family decisions together.	Shared responsibility- mutually agreeing on fair distribution of work, making family decisions together. Power and Control	Shared responsibility- mutually agreeing on fair distribution of work, making family decisions together. Equality	Shared responsibility- mutually agreeing on fair distribution of work, making family decisions together.	Shared responsibility- mutually agreeing on fair distribution of work, making family decisions together.	Shared responsibility- mutually agreeing on fair distribution of work, making family decisions together.
Using intimidation- making one’s partner afraid by using looks, actions, gestures: smashing things, destroying your partner’s property, displaying weapons.	Using intimidation- making one’s partner afraid by using looks, actions, gestures: smashing things, destroying your partner’s property, displaying weapons. Power and Control	Using intimidation- making one’s partner afraid by using looks, actions, gestures: smashing things, destroying your partner’s property, displaying weapons. Equality	Using intimidation- making one’s partner afraid by using looks, actions, gestures: smashing things, destroying your partner’s property, displaying weapons.	Using intimidation- making one’s partner afraid by using looks, actions, gestures: smashing things, destroying your partner’s property, displaying weapons.	Using intimidation- making one’s partner afraid by using looks, actions, gestures: smashing things, destroying your partner’s property, displaying weapons.
Minimizing, denying, and blaming- making light of abuse, denying it happened, blaming her/him for your behavior (“you made me hit you”).	Minimizing, denying, and blaming- making light of abuse, denying it happened, blaming her/him for your behavior (“you made me hit you”). Power and Control	Minimizing, denying, and blaming- making light of abuse, denying it happened, blaming her/him for your behavior (“you made me hit you”). Equality	Minimizing, denying, and blaming- making light of abuse, denying it happened, blaming her/him for your behavior (“you made me hit you”).	Minimizing, denying, and blaming- making light of abuse, denying it happened, blaming her/him for your behavior (“you made me hit you”).	Minimizing, denying, and blaming- making light of abuse, denying it happened, blaming her/him for your behavior (“you made me hit you”).
Trust and support- supporting each other’s goals, respecting each other’s opinions, feelings and choice of friends, interests and activities.	Trust and support- supporting each other’s goals, respecting each other’s opinions, feelings and choice of friends, interests and activities. Power and Control	Trust and support- supporting each other’s goals, respecting each other’s opinions, feelings and choice of friends, interests and activities. Equality	Trust and support- supporting each other’s goals, respecting each other’s opinions, feelings and choice of friends, interests and activities.	Trust and support- supporting each other’s goals, respecting each other’s opinions, feelings and choice of friends, interests and activities.	Trust and support- supporting each other’s goals, respecting each other’s opinions, feelings and choice of friends, interests and activities.
Accepting responsibility for yourself and your behavior, admitting being wrong, communicating openly and truthfully.	Accepting responsibility for yourself and your behavior, admitting being wrong, communicating openly and truthfully. Power and Control	Accepting responsibility for yourself and your behavior, admitting being wrong, communicating openly and truthfully. Equality	Accepting responsibility for yourself and your behavior, admitting being wrong, communicating openly and truthfully.	Accepting responsibility for yourself and your behavior, admitting being wrong, communicating openly and truthfully.	Accepting responsibility for yourself and your behavior, admitting being wrong, communicating openly and truthfully.
Isolation – controlling where your partner goes, who he or she sees, limiting access to friends and family.	Isolation – controlling where your partner goes, who he or she sees, limiting access to friends and family. Power and Control	Isolation – controlling where your partner goes, who he or she sees, limiting access to friends and family. Equality	Isolation – controlling where your partner goes, who he or she sees, limiting access to friends and family.	Isolation – controlling where your partner goes, who he or she sees, limiting access to friends and family.	Isolation – controlling where your partner goes, who he or she sees, limiting access to friends and family.

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* 5. Of the three following behaviors, which is the most desirable?

Passive behavior- Unable to speak up for or stand up for one’s self. Does not get needs met.

Aggressive behavior- Intimidates and overpowers others. Gets needs met at the expense of others.

Assertive behavior- Is open regarding thoughts and feelings while being respectful of others. Gets needs met without hurting others.

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* 6. A person with good boundaries…

	True	False
Has trouble saying “no”	Has trouble saying “no” True	Has trouble saying “no” False	Has trouble saying “no”	Has trouble saying “no”	Has trouble saying “no”
Can express healthy anger and refuse to be victimized.	Can express healthy anger and refuse to be victimized. True	Can express healthy anger and refuse to be victimized. False	Can express healthy anger and refuse to be victimized.	Can express healthy anger and refuse to be victimized.	Can express healthy anger and refuse to be victimized.
Is able to feel clear and decisive.	Is able to feel clear and decisive. True	Is able to feel clear and decisive. False	Is able to feel clear and decisive.	Is able to feel clear and decisive.	Is able to feel clear and decisive.
Is focused more on her partner’s problems, needs and emotions than on her own.	Is focused more on her partner’s problems, needs and emotions than on her own. True	Is focused more on her partner’s problems, needs and emotions than on her own. False	Is focused more on her partner’s problems, needs and emotions than on her own.	Is focused more on her partner’s problems, needs and emotions than on her own.	Is focused more on her partner’s problems, needs and emotions than on her own.
Is secure, grounded and able to cope.	Is secure, grounded and able to cope. True	Is secure, grounded and able to cope. False	Is secure, grounded and able to cope.	Is secure, grounded and able to cope.	Is secure, grounded and able to cope.

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* 7. List two ways in which you can increase your self-esteem.

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* 8. List two ways helpful ways to handle stress.

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* 9. True or False?

	True	False
Alcohol causes domestic abuse.	Alcohol causes domestic abuse. True	Alcohol causes domestic abuse. False	Alcohol causes domestic abuse.	Alcohol causes domestic abuse.	Alcohol causes domestic abuse.
It is okay to hit one’s partner when angry.	It is okay to hit one’s partner when angry. True	It is okay to hit one’s partner when angry. False	It is okay to hit one’s partner when angry.	It is okay to hit one’s partner when angry.	It is okay to hit one’s partner when angry.
Taking a time out is a good idea if emotions become too intense during an argument.	Taking a time out is a good idea if emotions become too intense during an argument. True	Taking a time out is a good idea if emotions become too intense during an argument. False	Taking a time out is a good idea if emotions become too intense during an argument.	Taking a time out is a good idea if emotions become too intense during an argument.	Taking a time out is a good idea if emotions become too intense during an argument.
Extreme possessiveness and jealousy early in a relationship may be an indicator of an abuser and/or power and control.	Extreme possessiveness and jealousy early in a relationship may be an indicator of an abuser and/or power and control. True	Extreme possessiveness and jealousy early in a relationship may be an indicator of an abuser and/or power and control. False	Extreme possessiveness and jealousy early in a relationship may be an indicator of an abuser and/or power and control.	Extreme possessiveness and jealousy early in a relationship may be an indicator of an abuser and/or power and control.	Extreme possessiveness and jealousy early in a relationship may be an indicator of an abuser and/or power and control.
The following are reasons a woman may find herself in an abusive relationship: a family history of abuse, low self-esteem and feeling trapped because she made a commitment to the relationship before finding out he is abusive.	The following are reasons a woman may find herself in an abusive relationship: a family history of abuse, low self-esteem and feeling trapped because she made a commitment to the relationship before finding out he is abusive. True	The following are reasons a woman may find herself in an abusive relationship: a family history of abuse, low self-esteem and feeling trapped because she made a commitment to the relationship before finding out he is abusive. False	The following are reasons a woman may find herself in an abusive relationship: a family history of abuse, low self-esteem and feeling trapped because she made a commitment to the relationship before finding out he is abusive.	The following are reasons a woman may find herself in an abusive relationship: a family history of abuse, low self-esteem and feeling trapped because she made a commitment to the relationship before finding out he is abusive.	The following are reasons a woman may find herself in an abusive relationship: a family history of abuse, low self-esteem and feeling trapped because she made a commitment to the relationship before finding out he is abusive.
The best way to ensure a positive self-esteem in our children is to offer frequent praise, gentle constructive criticism, and unconditional acceptance and love.	The best way to ensure a positive self-esteem in our children is to offer frequent praise, gentle constructive criticism, and unconditional acceptance and love. True	The best way to ensure a positive self-esteem in our children is to offer frequent praise, gentle constructive criticism, and unconditional acceptance and love. False	The best way to ensure a positive self-esteem in our children is to offer frequent praise, gentle constructive criticism, and unconditional acceptance and love.	The best way to ensure a positive self-esteem in our children is to offer frequent praise, gentle constructive criticism, and unconditional acceptance and love.	The best way to ensure a positive self-esteem in our children is to offer frequent praise, gentle constructive criticism, and unconditional acceptance and love.
A partner refusing to let you spend time with your friends or family is a form of psychological/emotional abuse.	A partner refusing to let you spend time with your friends or family is a form of psychological/emotional abuse. True	A partner refusing to let you spend time with your friends or family is a form of psychological/emotional abuse. False	A partner refusing to let you spend time with your friends or family is a form of psychological/emotional abuse.	A partner refusing to let you spend time with your friends or family is a form of psychological/emotional abuse.	A partner refusing to let you spend time with your friends or family is a form of psychological/emotional abuse.
If you can’t reach an agreement in a conflict, it is a good idea to ask family or friends to get involved.	If you can’t reach an agreement in a conflict, it is a good idea to ask family or friends to get involved. True	If you can’t reach an agreement in a conflict, it is a good idea to ask family or friends to get involved. False	If you can’t reach an agreement in a conflict, it is a good idea to ask family or friends to get involved.	If you can’t reach an agreement in a conflict, it is a good idea to ask family or friends to get involved.	If you can’t reach an agreement in a conflict, it is a good idea to ask family or friends to get involved.
It is possible to change another person if you work really hard at it and don’t give up.	It is possible to change another person if you work really hard at it and don’t give up. True	It is possible to change another person if you work really hard at it and don’t give up. False	It is possible to change another person if you work really hard at it and don’t give up.	It is possible to change another person if you work really hard at it and don’t give up.	It is possible to change another person if you work really hard at it and don’t give up.