The Alienator and The Targeted Alienated Parent About the Alienator and you This survey is only 10 short questions with yes or no answers. It should take only a few minutes to respond. Thank you. OK Question Title * 1. Would you say the alienating parent needs to have total control of everything? Yes No OK Question Title * 2. Would you say that when you met the alienating parent, you were more like the peacemaker, go-with-the-flow, whatever-you-say-honey parent? Yes No OK Question Title * 3. Would you say that when you finally stood up and took the control back, that this was when all the problems began? Yes No OK Question Title * 4. Has any professional diagnosed the alienating parent as narcissistic and/or borderline personality and/or bi-polar? Yes No OK Question Title * 5. Would you say the alienating parent has extreme low self-esteem and sense of self-worth? Yes No OK Question Title * 6. Would you describe the alienating parent as being filled with hatred, anger and rage toward you? Yes No OK Question Title * 7. Would you say that the alienating parent was raised to believe they had to be perfect because if they are not perfect, then they are not lovable, and if they are not lovable, they will be abandoned, and if they are abandoned they are alone and that this terrifies them? Yes No OK Question Title * 8. Do you think or know definitively that the alienating parent was abused whether physically, psychologically or sexually? Yes No OK Question Title * 9. Would you say or has a professional told you, that the other alienating parent have the 4 C’s described by Dr. Steve Miller of cool, calm, charming and convincing? Yes No OK Question Title * 10. Would you say, you have the 4 A’s described by Dr. Steve Miller of anxious, agitated, angry and afraid. Yes No OK DONE