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Pleasure Gap Survey

We started Dame to make the world a happier place, one vagina at a time.

Our products are designed to address what we call the “Pleasure Gap.” In surveys, women are four times more likely to say recent sex was "not at all pleasurable.” With your input, we’re compiling a Pleasure Gap Index to measure the current state of the gap. Help us learn how to close it for good!
1.I feel content with the way my present sex life is.
2.I often feel something is missing from my present sex life.
3.I often feel I don’t have enough emotional closeness in my sex life.
4.I feel content with how often I presently have sexual intimacy (kissing, intercourse, etc.) in my life.
5.I don’t have any important problems or concerns about sex (arousal, orgasm,
frequency, compatibility, communication, etc.).
6.Overall, how satisfactory or unsatisfactory is your present sex life?
7.My partner often gets defensive when I try discussing sex.
8.My partner and I do not discuss sex openly enough with each other, or do not
discuss sex often enough.
9.I usually feel completely comfortable discussing sex whenever my partner wants
to.
10.My partner usually feels completely comfortable discussing sex whenever I want to.
11.I have no difficulty talking about my deepest feelings and emotions when my
partner wants me to.
12.My partner has no difficulty talking about their deepest feelings and emotions
when I want them to.
13.I often feel my partner isn’t sensitive or aware enough about my sexual likes and
desires.
14.I often feel that my partner and I are not sexually compatible enough.
15.I often feel that my partner’s beliefs and attitudes about sex are too different from
mine.
16.I sometimes think my partner and I are mismatched in needs and desires
concerning sexual intimacy.
17.I sometimes feel that my partner and I might not be physically attracted to each
other enough.
18.I sometimes think my partner and I are mismatched in our sexual styles and
preferences.
19.I’m worried that my partner will become frustrated with my sexual difficulties.
20.I’m worried that my sexual difficulties will adversely affect my relationship.
21.I’m worried that my partner may have an affair because of my sexual difficulties.
22.I’m worried that my partner is sexually unfulfilled.
23.I’m worried that my partner views me as less of a sexual partner because of my sexual difficulties.
24.I feel like I’ve disappointed my partner by having sexual difficulties.
25.My sexual difficulties are frustrating to me.
26.My sexual difficulties make me feel sexually unfulfilled.
27.I’m worried that my sexual difficulties might cause me to seek sexual fulfillment
outside my relationship.
28.I’m so distressed about my sexual difficulties that it affects the way I feel about
myself.
29.I’m so distressed about my sexual difficulties that it affects my own well-being.
30.My sexual difficulties annoy and anger me.
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