Relationship Readiness Questionnaire

In order to get the most accurate and helpful score I have divided the survey into 8 sections.
Each person should fill out their own survey.
Please read each question carefully
Please answer each question honestly
Please do not skip any questions

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1. Please enter your name

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2. Email address

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3. Please enter today's date

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Friendship & Connection

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4. I genuinely enjoy spending time with my partner.

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5. My partner knows what is important to me

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6. I feel emotionally close to my partner.

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7. We laugh together regularly.

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8. My partner "gets" me

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9. I admire and respect my partner.

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10. I feel lonely even when we are together

Communication

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11. We discuss disagreements respectfully

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12. I feel heard when I express concerns

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13. My partner listens without immediately becoming defensive

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14. We apologize and repair after conflict

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15. Difficult conversations end with greater understanding

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16. My partner is critical of me

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17. My partner uses sarcasm to belittle or criticize me

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18. My partner avoids difficult conversations

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19. I find myself keeping secrets

Trust & Safety

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20. I trust my partner when it comes to financial matters

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21. I feel emotionally safe sharing vulnerable feelings.

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22. We keep our promises.

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23. I believe my partner has my best interests at heart.

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24. I rarely question my partner's commitment

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25. My partner threatens to break up with me

Conflict Management

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26. I feel personally attacked when my partner and I argue

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27. We recover quickly after disagreements

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28. We can compromise

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29. Problems get resolved rather than ignored

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30. We keep a mental tally of who has done more or less for the relationship

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31. My partner becomes defensive when I bring up an issue

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32. My partner gives me the silent treatment

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33. I experience resentment that continues for weeks

Intimacy

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34. I feel emotionally desired

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35. I'm satisfied with our physical intimacy (sitting together, holding hands, etc)

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36. I feel satisfied sexually in my relationship

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37. I feel physically attracted to my partner

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38. We regularly show affection

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39. We make time for romance

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40. We feel like teammates

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41. We have come to a mutual understanding of what we consider cheating

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42. My partner would never cheat on me

The Business of Us

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43. Household responsibilities feel fair

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44. We agree on major life goals

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45. We have discussed our plan for growing our family (children, pets, just us, etc...)

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46. We have discussed and agree on the role religion will play in our lives

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47. Financial discussions are respectful

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48. We support one another's dreams

Stress & Resilience

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49. Outside stress can pull us apart

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50. We handle major setbacks together

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51. We encourage one another during difficult times

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52. We solve problems together

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53. I know my partner will be there when I need them

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54. I have felt disappointed by my partner

Commitment & Future

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55. I cannot imagine my future without this relationship

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56. We regularly talk about our future together

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57. I choose this relationship every day

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58. We actively work on improving our relationship

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59. What is your relationships greatest strength?

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60. Is there anything else you would like me to know about your relationship?

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