ABDL Hopes, Dreams and Ambitions

As ABDLs, we want and desire much that we suspect we cannot have in real life. The mere idea of spending large amounts of time as an infant is near impossible for most. This survey seeks to identify what are the things we would like to experience, were it possible and how does it make us feel. What are our inner hopes, our dreams and ambitions for our ABDL natures without the strictures that real life imposes upon us?

This is about what you would WANT, rather than what you can have, so answer honestly about what you would want and desire if negative attitudes etcetera were not in play. This is obviously part fantasy, but is aimed at discovering just who we would be and how would we behave if diapers and ABDL were considered natural and normal.

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* 1. How strong are your ABDL needs and desires?

Light and occasional

Frequent and fairly strong

Very frequent and quite strong

There all the time and often very strong

Overwhelming and invasive.

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* 2. Do you feel that being a baby/toddler is more or less natural and normal than being an adult.

Being an adult is more natural and normal than being a baby

Being a baby sometimes feels more normal and natural than being an adult, but only some of the time

Being a baby often feels more normal and natural than being an adult, but not all the time

Being a baby generally feels more normal and natural than being an adult much of the time

Being a baby is always more normal and natural than being an adult, no matter what

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* 3. Does being a baby relax or stress you?

Being a baby stresses me, but I still do it

Being a baby feels okay, but neither stresses nor relaxes me

Being a baby is definitely relaxing whenever I allow myself to regress

Being a baby is the most relaxed and natural state I ever get into

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* 4. Would you like a relationship (either current or future) to involve ABDL and diapers?

I don't want ABDL/diapers in my relationship even if it was acceptable

I'd really like ABDL/diapers in my relationship but I am not that fussed either way

I'd be happy if I was just able to wear diapers in my relationship but leave the baby aspect out of it

I'd really like ABDL/diapers in my relationship in some way or other

I would really, really like ABDL/diapers in my relationship and in a big way

I would struggle to not have ABDL/diapers in my relationship and so it is a non-negotiable aspect for me

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* 5. How would you like your current relationship improved regarding ABDL/diapers?

I have no current relationship

I would like acceptance and hassle-free use of diapers

I would like acceptance and hassle-free permission to be a baby when I want to

I would like my partner to more than simple 'accept' but also to 'understand' my ABDL/diapers

I would like my partner involved to a moderate degree in ABDL/diapers

I would like my partner involved to a large degree in ABDL/diapers

I would like my partner to become totally involved and invested in my ABDL/diapers as a 'parent'

I would like my partner to wear and use diapers sometimes

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* 6. Would you like to live/play as a regressed adult baby and for how long?

I would like to be able to play as a baby as long as I need to whenever I need to

I would like to be able to live as a baby whenever I need to and also for lengthy periods of time

I would like to be able to live as a baby virtually 24/7 or something closely approximating that

Any other thoughts? (please specify)

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* 7. Would you like to wear and use diapers 24/7 ie fulltime without significant exceptions?

Yes

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* 8. Would you like to be incontinent or what we call 'pre-potty trained'?

I would like to keep full control

I would like to be a genuine bedwetter but day-time continent

I would like to be bladder incontinent and need diapers 24/7

I would like to be bladder and bowel incontinent and need diapers 24/7

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* 9. Would you like to involve discipline in your ABDL life?

No discipline for me thanks!

I would like infant/toddler style appropriate discipline eg timeouts, light smacks, removal of toys etc

I would like heavy discipline while remaining a baby eg solid spankings, timeouts etc

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* 10. How do you feel about wearing genuine baby clothing (ie not costumes or atypical baby wear)?

I don't want baby clothing at all

I like baby clothes and would like to be able to wear them often

I would like to wear baby clothes a lot in home or safe environments

While I know it is not possible/appropriate, I would prefer to wear baby clothing all the time including in public and with friends/family

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* 11. If you knew you would be accepted and not disavowed (or worse) would you like to be openly ABDL to your family, friends and work colleagues without them necessarily seeing much of it?

I would never want anyone to know no matter how acceptable it was

I would like family to know I was ABDL and to be able to be openly so around them

I would like family and friends to know I was ABDL and to be able to be openly so around them

I would like family, friends and work colleagues to know I was ABDL and to be able to be openly so around them

I would like to be openly ABDL at any time and place without negative impact (even though I know it is not really possible at the moment)

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* 12. Would you like to be able to display genuine baby/toddler behaviours openly, such as crying, crawling, baby talk, playing with infant toys, feeding etcetera with your partner and possibly family/friends, but not necessarily in public?

Open crying

Open crawling

Open baby talk

Open discipline

Open playing with age-appropriate toys

Open Breast feeding

Open Bottle/spoon feeding

Open misbehaviour such as throwing, disobedience or even (real) tantrums

Other behaviors (please specify)

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* 13. Do you enjoy playing with baby/toddler toys now?

Love playing with infant/toddler toys

Don't play with infant/toddler toys

Sometimes play with toys but not often

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* 14. What baby furniture would you like if you could have an open baby nursery?

Adult-size crib/cot

Adult-size changing table

Play mat

Play pen (enclosed)

Baby mobile (above the crib or elsewhere)

Spanking bench

High chair

Toy box

Potty chair (if toilet training)

Feeding chair/couch (breast or bottle)

Other ideas (please specify)

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* 15. What level of dependence do you want as a baby when in a relationship?

I want complete independence

I would like to have my partner take a moderate level of control over me during baby times

I would like to have my partner take a significant level of control over me during baby times

I would like to have my partner take full 'parental' control over me during baby times including discipline

I would like to have my partner take significant 'parental' control over me at all times, including discipline, baby and adult so that my infancy is always assumed

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* 16. If you want to be in a 'parent/baby' type of relationship (either occasional, often or near constant) who do you want as a parent?

I don't want a parent at all

I want a daddy

I want a mommy

I want to be baby to a genuine mommy/daddy couple

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* 17. Do you want sex to be ABDL-themed?

Never

Sometimes yes

As often as I can

I only want sex in an ABDL theme

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* 1. How strong are your ABDL needs and desires?

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* 2. Do you feel that being a baby/toddler is more or less natural and normal than being an adult.

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* 3. Does being a baby relax or stress you?

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* 4. Would you like a relationship (either current or future) to involve ABDL and diapers?

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* 5. How would you like your current relationship improved regarding ABDL/diapers?

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* 6. Would you like to live/play as a regressed adult baby and for how long?

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* 7. Would you like to wear and use diapers 24/7 ie fulltime without significant exceptions?

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* 8. Would you like to be incontinent or what we call 'pre-potty trained'?

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* 9. Would you like to involve discipline in your ABDL life?

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* 10. How do you feel about wearing genuine baby clothing (ie not costumes or atypical baby wear)?

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* 11. If you knew you would be accepted and not disavowed (or worse) would you like to be openly ABDL to your family, friends and work colleagues without them necessarily seeing much of it?

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* 12. Would you like to be able to display genuine baby/toddler behaviours openly, such as crying, crawling, baby talk, playing with infant toys, feeding etcetera with your partner and possibly family/friends, but not necessarily in public?

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* 13. Do you enjoy playing with baby/toddler toys now?

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* 14. What baby furniture would you like if you could have an open baby nursery?

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* 15. What level of dependence do you want as a baby when in a relationship?

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* 16. If you want to be in a 'parent/baby' type of relationship (either occasional, often or near constant) who do you want as a parent?

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* 17. Do you want sex to be ABDL-themed?

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