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* 1. What is your gender?

* 2. How old are you?

* 3. Are you answering the survey about a current or past relationship?

* 4. How old is your partner?

* 5. Are you married?

* 6. If so, how many years have you been married?

* 7. If you are not married, how many years have you been together?

* 8. What is your annual income?

* 9. What is your partner's annual income?

* 10. What is the highest level of education you have completed?

* 11. What is the highest level of education your partner has completed?

* 12. Overall, how happy are you in your marriage/relationship?

* 13. Overall, how happy are you with the love and affection you receive from your partner?

* 14. Overall, how happy are you with the respect and admiration you receive from your partner?

* 15. It is always difficult to predict what will happen in a marriage/relationship, but realistically, what do you think are the chances that you and your partner will eventually break up or divorce? Rate the chances, with 1 being a low chance of breaking up and 10 being high chance of breaking up.

* 16. Are you currently working?

* 17. Is your partner currently working?

* 18. If you answered "no" to either of those, how long have you or your partner been out of work?

* 19. If you are working, are you working full time (35+ hours) or part time (1-35 hours)?

* 20. Would you like to work full time, part time or be at home full time?

* 21. To what extent do you and your spouse share finances?

* 22. If you combine your finances who manages the shared money?

* 23. How satisfied are you with the financial arrangements in your household?

* 24. How often do you argue about money with your partner?

* 25. Think back to when you recently fought about money. What was the situation? How intense did it get? Please explain.

* 26. Has one of you always made more money than the other? Please explain how the situation evolved.

* 27. Does the woman in your relationship have more "power" in the relationship because she earns more money?

* 28. How self-conscious or uncomfortable is the man in your relationship about making less money than his partner?

* 29. Does the man in your relationship feel judged by friends and family because he makes less money?

* 30. Please describe in the space below how the disparity in income or educational achievement affects your relationship.

* 31. Which of you does more housework -- tidying up, doing laundry, making beds, etc?

* 32. Which of you does more cooking?

* 33. In an ideal relationship, do you think the man should be able to make the primary financial contribution to the family?

* 34. In the future, do you think it will be more acceptable for women to make the primary financial contribution to the family?

* 35. Do you have children with your current partner? (If no, skip to question 43.)

* 36. Who does most of the child care duties in your relationship?

* 37. Please describe in the space below why you decided on the child care arrangements you chose.

* 38. How satisfied are you with the child care arrangements arrangements in your household?

* 39. How often do you argue with your partner about the child care arrangements in your household?

* 40. Think back to when you recently fought about child care arrangements. What was the situation? How intense did it get? Please explain.

* 41. In an ideal situation, do you think the woman should be the main child care provider?

* 42. Do you think in the future, more men will be the main child care providers?

* 43. Would you be willing to be interviewed further for this project? If so, please include your e-mail or contact number in the space below. Thank you. We deeply appreciate your help and generosity.

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