Take this 18 questions quiz to know how much work your partner that cheated needs to do before he or she has a right to ask for forgiveness:

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* 1. Has all contact with the outside person ended?

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* 2. Does your partner who cheated get angry when you want to discuss what happened?

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* 3. Does your partner who cheated recognized that it is his or her responsibility to enforce zero contact with the outside person?

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* 4. Does your partner who cheated allow you to conduct informal 'investigations' to determine if the affair as ended?

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* 5. Does your partner who cheated 'lie' about the affair?

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* 6. Does your partner who cheated recognize your right to know the truth?

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* 7. Does your partner who cheated get angry when you have strong emotional reactions to the infidelity?

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* 8. Has your partner who cheated apologized for what he or she has done?

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* 9. Is your partner who cheated willing to alter his or her job or lifestyle to make you more secure?

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* 10. Your partner who cheated shows NO remorse?

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* 11. Is your partner who cheated blaming you for his or her bad behavior?

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* 12. Should you request, is your partner who cheated willing to go to a qualified therapist for help?

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* 13. Does your partner who cheated make YOU his or her priority?

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* 14. Does your partner who cheated make you feel like the infidelity is your fault?

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* 15. Has your partner who cheated understand your pain he or she has caused?

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* 16. Is your partner who cheated empathetic for how he or she has hurt you?

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* 17. Does your partner who cheated take 100% responsibility for having cheated?

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* 18. Is your partner who cheated willing to talk with you regarding details of the infidelity?

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