This survey is for women who have romantic relationships with men. Please only complete this survey if you fit this description. If a question does not apply to you, leave it blank. For example, if you are not currently in a relationship, leave questions about your current relationship blank. Please note that a Survey Monkey glitch means that sometimes, when a scale asks you to rate from 1-100, it will give you 1-10 instead, and vice versa. Select the most appropriate number.

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* 1. Please select the five criteria you consider most important in choosing a partner. You may select less than five answers, but not more than five. 

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* 2. If you are not currently in a relationship, please skip this question. If you are currently in a relationship, please select the five characteristics--no more than five--that initially attracted you to your current partner. 

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* 3. Please select the minimum annual income a person would need to earn for you to consider a relationship with them. If you do not have a minimum income requirement, please select 0.

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* 4. A dealbreaker is an attribute that would cause you to end the relationship, or no longer pursue a prospective relationship. It is not merely an undesirable characteristic, but a characteristic you refuse to tolerate in any relationship. Please select characteristics that are absolute dealbreakers for you. You may select as many as you like. Please only select characteristics that would be immediate reasons to end or not pursue a relationship.

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* 5. A sexual dealbreaker is an attribute that would cause you to immediately end a sexual relationship with someone, and refuse to have sex with them again. It is not merely an undesirable quality, but a relationship ender. Please select any of the following attributes that would be sexual dealbreakers for you.

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* 6. What are the most important benefits, to you, of being in a relationship? Please check no more than five options.

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* 7. On a scale of 1 to 100, how important is it to you to avoid being single over the long-term?

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* 8. Are there any red flags in your current relationship that you wish you had noticed in the early days? What are they? If the answer is no, please skip this question. If you are not in a relationship, please answer this question with your most recent relationship in mind.

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* 9. Do you identify as a feminist? 

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* 10. On a scale of 1-10, how happy are you in your current relationship? If you are not in a relationship, please skip this question.

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* 11. Would you characterize your current relationship as dysfunctional, abusive, or unhappy? If you are not in a relationship, please skip this question.

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* 12. Which aspects of sex are most important to you? Please select no more than three.

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* 13. How many times per week, in your ideal world, would you like to have sex with your ideal partner? This refers to a happy relationship, with someone you love and have good sex with, not necessarily your current partner.

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* 14. How many times per week, in your ideal world, would you like to have sex with your actual partner? This refers to the partner you currently have. If you are single, skip this question.

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* 15. What are some common red flags in relationships with men? Please use single words rather than phrases.

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* 16. What are some green flags in relationships with men? Please use single words rather than phrases.

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* 17. What do you think men get wrong about what women want in their relationships?

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* 18. Is there anything you would like me to know about what you seek in relationships with men?

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* 19. I expect a man to protect me.

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* 20. I expect a man to financially provide for me.

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* 21. If you are currently in a relationship, please select the attributes your partner most consistently brings to the relationship. If you are not currently in a relationship, please skip this question. For each term, think about how you might rate that term positively, and then only select it if your partner meets those criteria. For example, if you consider progressive politics beneficial, you would check the box if your partner is politically progressive.

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