5 Love Languages Military Edition Survey

1. Please choose the category that applies to you.

2. Please mark the branch of service you represent.

3. What is your love language (or your top two love languages)?

4. What is/are your spouse's primary love language(s)? Please choose one or two.

5. Before your knew your spouse's love language, what happened when you tried to show love in a language that did not speak to him/her? For example, if your spouse's language was acts of service, and you gave gifts instead, what was the result? Please share an example.

6. After learning your spouse's love language, how were you able to better connect with each other? Please give an example.

7. How do you adapt how you express the love languages during deployment and/or reintegration?

8. If the military member has experienced combat trauma, what effect did that have on how you express love to each other?

9. Please share any stories from your marriage regarding how the 5 love languages worked for you, and any adaptations you made to how you expressed love during the unique challenges of military life (deployments, PCSing, etc). If you run out of space here, or would rather send an email or attachment to me, please email jocelyn@jocelyngreen.com.

10. Would you allow me to follow-up with you via email if I have another question about anything you shared here? Please note, I will not use your real name in the book. If you are willing for me to contact you, please leave your email address.