COME AS YOU ARE Poll Survey

40 years after the Stonewall Riots, what are your sexual values?
Select all answers that apply.

1. The thing that makes me want to get all sexy with someone most is…

The thing that makes me want to get all sexy with someone most is… Their smell.

Their shape.

Their sense of humor.

Who else they’ve slept with.

If they can make me smile.

If they can make me cry.

Size, its all about size.

Their taste in music.

Their demeanor.

Their reputation.

Their bank account.

Their bedroom eyes.

Their geek cred.

Their prose.

A pulse.

2. Good sex to me is…

Good sex to me is… When I get off.

When they get off.

When we both get off.

Love

Hate

Like a box of chocolates…

Emotional connection.

The kind I have with myself.

I wouldn’t know, I’ve never had it.

All sex!

Sex with trust.

Sex with as many people as possible, at the same time.

3. I watch porn…

I watch porn… All the time.

Only with a partner.

Only by myself.

Only when its feminist.

Only when its queer.

Never…eww.

And make it!

4. When hard at play I like to make safer sex more fun by…

When hard at play I like to make safer sex more fun by… Making friends with silicone toys.

Wearing lots of latex.

Becoming a safer sex superhero! (I have a cape)

Ummm….what’s safer sex?

Avoiding all fluids (in my hazmat suit)

Only playing with one person at a time.

Only fucking myself, celibacy is sexy too.

Using disposable items.

Being a voyeur. Watching is participation!

5. There is an expectation that my body look like a gym bunny/super model and if I can’t live up to those expectations I …

There is an expectation that my body look like a gym bunny/super model and if I can’t live up to those expectations I … Get depressed and don’t want to get it on.

Go and have discreet encounters or anonymous sex

Say “Screw you, I love how I look!” and strut your stuff hot and heavy.

Decide to go out and better yourself for yourself.

Want to change yourself for your partner or to attract a new one.

Think cyber sex is great, no need to judge there.

Feel that masturbation can solve all the worlds’ problems, or at least this one right now.

Talk it out with my lover until I feel sexy again and then hit the sheets!

6. When I go out to fight for a good cause my primary motivation is…

When I go out to fight for a good cause my primary motivation is… Finding other people who believe in the same thing, who also want to sleep with me.

Finding a way to help others, who might also want to sleep with me.

Making new friends, who’s friends might also want to sleep with me.

Feeling good about making a difference

Fighting a fight so that people have the right to sleep with each other.

I’m a lover not a fighter.

I only care about the cause.

7. You know your sex is queer when…

You know your sex is queer when… You are all the same sex.

There is more than two of you.

You get to play with gender.

There is a strap-on in the room.

When it involves you.

8. When I’m getting it on my favorite place is….

When I’m getting it on my favorite place is…. In the bedroom.

In the bedroom but on the dresser.

In the laundry room on the washer.

In the shower.

In the movie theater.

In the park.

In the woods.

In an alley.

At a play/sex party

In a car.

On a boat.

In a plane.

On cyberspace.

Inside you.

9. When something completely awkward happens during sex I…

When something completely awkward happens during sex I… Quickly hide.

Cry

Look around confused.

Talk it out with my partner.

Internalize it until it drives me to madness.

Laugh

Pretend nothing happened and hope they missed it too.

Blame the dog.

Fall Asleep.

Don’t have awkward moments, I’m slick like that.

10. When all hot and heavy I love to…

When all hot and heavy I love to… Penetrate something.

Use my mouth.

Touch myself, I do it best!

Get all dressed up.

Read something naughty.

Lie there and let it all happen.

Get my pain on.

Wag my tail.

Be told what to do.

Get all tactile.

Take a cold shower.

COME AS YOU ARE Poll

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