Parents Who Cheat

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I am conducting a confidential survey to evaluate the effects of parental infidelity on adult children. If either (or both) of your parents was ever unfaithful, I am inviting you to participate in this study by answering a list of questions. Otherwise, please disregard this invitation or email it to someone else whose parent(s) may have been unfaithful. The results of this survey were already published in a book "Parents Who Cheat: How Infidelity Affects Children and Adults". However, I keep collecting more data for further discussion.

Thank you for your participation.

Sincerely,

Ana Ledwin Nogales, Ph.D.
Psychologist
PSY 11317
www.drnogales.com

1. what is your gender?
2. How old are you?
3. where do you live?
4. Do you have knowledge that your mother or father cheated?
5. How old were you when you found out of the cheating?
6. Did your parents get divorced as a consequence of the infidelity?
7. Were you ashamed or embarrassed to talk about your parent’s infidelity with your friends or other people?
8. Did your relationship to the unfaithful parent change?
9. Did your relationship to the betrayed parent change?
10. Were you angry with or hurt by your parent for being unfaithful?
11. If you were angry with or hurt by your parent for being unfaithful, were you eventually able to forgive him/her?
12. Did you feel betrayed by your parent's infidelity?
13. Was your attitude toward love and relationships affected by your parent’s infidelity?
14. Have your own romantic relationships been affected by your parent’s infidelity?
15. Do you believe in commitment?
16. Do you believe in monogamy?
17. Have you ever been unfaithful yourself once in a committed relationship?
18. Do you believe that cheating is OK as long as your partner does not find out?
19. Do you believe that people regularly lie?
20. Do you believe that you should not open yourself emotionally in order to prevent the pain of being betrayed?
21. Are you concerned about being betrayed by your significant other?
22. Did your parent's infidelity affect your ability to trust others?
23. Do you believe that your ability to relate to your partner would have been different if your parent had not cheated?
24. If your parent's infidelity affected you, please describe how?
25. Would you be interested in being interviewed on the effects of parental infidelity? If so, please write your email address below. Otherwise, thank you for your cooperation. The information you provided is of significant importance!