If you and your spouse waited until marriage before having sex.
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. What level of sexual activity did you and your spouse have before getting married?
What level of sexual activity did you and your spouse have before getting married?
We didn't even kiss on the mouth.
We kissed but didn't "French" kiss.
We had some heavy make out sessions.
There was some fondling. (Over or under clothes.)
We had oral sex.
The whole shebang. So to speak.
Other (please specify)
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. For how long have you been married? If divorced, please also click on a response to say how long you were married before divorce.
For how long have you been married? If divorced, please also click on a response to say how long you were married before divorce.
0-5 years
5-10 years
10-15 years
15-20 years
more than 20 years
divorced
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. Did you read any information about sex prior to marriage, in order to prepare yourself?
Did you read any information about sex prior to marriage, in order to prepare yourself?
Yes
No
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. Did you talk to friends about sex prior to marriage, in order to prepare yourself?
Did you talk to friends about sex prior to marriage, in order to prepare yourself?
Yes
No
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. Did you talk to a parent about sex, prior to marriage? If so, was that by choice, or were you cornered? (I'm just curious about that last part.)
Did you talk to a parent about sex, prior to marriage? If so, was that by choice, or were you cornered? (I'm just curious about that last part.)
Yes, by choice
Yes, cornered
No
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. Do you think your expectations of sex were realistic? If not, what would you have liked to have known to assist in more realistic expectations? (Please use comments area.)
Do you think your expectations of sex were realistic? If not, what would you have liked to have known to assist in more realistic expectations? (Please use comments area.)
Yes
Mostly
Somewhat
Not at all
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. [Question about women only. (Sorry if this seems like stereotyping but let's not kid ourselves.) Men, if you feel like you can answer for your wife, please do. If you don't know how to answer, skip the question.]
How often do you have regular orgasms during sexual activity with your spouse? (Intercourse, oral sex, manual stimulation, etc.)
[Question about women only. (Sorry if this seems like stereotyping but let's not kid ourselves.) Men, if you feel like you can answer for your wife, please do. If you don't know how to answer, skip the question.] How often do you have regular orgasms during sexual activity with your spouse? (Intercourse, oral sex, manual stimulation, etc.)
Always or nearly always
Most of the time
About half the time
Sometimes
Almost never
Still waiting
I'm not quite sure if I have or not
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. How long after marriage did it take for you to find sex physically fulfilling? I'm thinking of climax but if you think there's another way to measure that and you'd like to explain, please do in the comments section below.
How long after marriage did it take for you to find sex physically fulfilling? I'm thinking of climax but if you think there's another way to measure that and you'd like to explain, please do in the comments section below.
From the very first time
A week
A month
A few months
A year
A few years
Still waiting
Other (please specify)
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. Have you ever considered divorce because of being sexually unfulfilled? Have you ever argued about sex? (Survey only lets me ask 10 questions, so I'm squeezing in two here. You can choose more than one response, in order to answer both questions.)
Have you ever considered divorce because of being sexually unfulfilled? Have you ever argued about sex? (Survey only lets me ask 10 questions, so I'm squeezing in two here. You can choose more than one response, in order to answer both questions.)
Yes I've considered divorce
No I have not considered divorce
Yes we've argued
No we haven't argued
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. Please answer as many of these as you want or can in the space provided:
1. Are you happy you waited to marry your spouse before having sex?
2. How did waiting affect your marriage for better or worse?
3. If you found out before marriage that your partner was bad in bed, but you loved everything else about him or her, would you still have married him or her?
4. Is oral sex a part of your activities? I'm just curious and it's anonymous so why not ask? ;-)
Any other comments?
Please answer as many of these as you want or can in the space provided: 1. Are you happy you waited to marry your spouse before having sex? 2. How did waiting affect your marriage for better or worse? 3. If you found out before marriage that your partner was bad in bed, but you loved everything else about him or her, would you still have married him or her? 4. Is oral sex a part of your activities? I'm just curious and it's anonymous so why not ask? ;-) Any other comments?
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