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Is Your Relationship Normal?
1. Relationship Logistics
1
. How did you meet?
How did you meet?
Through friends/family
At work
Online
At a bar
At church/synagogue
Other
2
. How long did you date before you got married?
How long did you date before you got married?
10+ years
Six to nine years
Four to five years
Two to three years
Six months to 1 year
Less than six months
3
. When did you know that he was the one?
When did you know that he was the one?
Immediately
After dating for a few weeks
After a few months
After a year
After a few years
I’m still not sure!
4
. How long have you been married?
How long have you been married?
20+ years
15-19 years
10-14 years
Five to nine years
Two to four years
One year or less
5
. How many kids do you have?
How many kids do you have?
Four or more
Three
Two
One
None — yet!
We don’t have or want kids
6
. How do you feel about having more kids?
How do you feel about having more kids?
We’re both on the same page that we’re done having/don’t want kids
We’re both on the same page that we want more kids
We both want more kids — and we’re trying now!
I want more kids, but he isn’t so sure
He wants more kids, but I’m not so sure
7
. Who is older?
Who is older?
I am by more than five years
I am by less than five years
He is by more than five years
He is by less than five years
We’re the same age
8
. Who makes more money?
Who makes more money?
I do by a little
I do by a lot
He does by a little
He does by a lot
We make about the same
9
. Do you have a joint bank account?
Do you have a joint bank account?
Yes, we share everything
No, we’re separate on everything
We have both separate accounts and a joint account
10
. Who makes dinner more often?
Who makes dinner more often?
I do
He does
We both make it equally as often
We hardly ever make dinner — it’s dine out or takeout for us
11
. Do you have a TV in your bedroom?
Do you have a TV in your bedroom?
Yes
No
12
. Who rules the remote?
Who rules the remote?
I do
He does
Neither of us — we take turns deciding
We like all the same TV, so we almost always agree on what to watch
13
. Who chooses the movies more often?
Who chooses the movies more often?
I do
He does
We take turns
We have the same taste, so we mostly agree
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