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Is Your Relationship Normal?
1. Relationship Logistics
. How did you meet?
How did you meet?
At a bar
. How long did you date before you got married?
How long did you date before you got married?
Six to nine years
Four to five years
Two to three years
Six months to 1 year
Less than six months
. When did you know that he was the one?
When did you know that he was the one?
After dating for a few weeks
After a few months
After a year
After a few years
I’m still not sure!
. How long have you been married?
How long have you been married?
Five to nine years
Two to four years
One year or less
. How many kids do you have?
How many kids do you have?
Four or more
None — yet!
We don’t have or want kids
. How do you feel about having more kids?
How do you feel about having more kids?
We’re both on the same page that we’re done having/don’t want kids
We’re both on the same page that we want more kids
We both want more kids — and we’re trying now!
I want more kids, but he isn’t so sure
He wants more kids, but I’m not so sure
. Who is older?
Who is older?
I am by more than five years
I am by less than five years
He is by more than five years
He is by less than five years
We’re the same age
. Who makes more money?
Who makes more money?
I do by a little
I do by a lot
He does by a little
He does by a lot
We make about the same
. Do you have a joint bank account?
Do you have a joint bank account?
Yes, we share everything
No, we’re separate on everything
We have both separate accounts and a joint account
. Who makes dinner more often?
Who makes dinner more often?
We both make it equally as often
We hardly ever make dinner — it’s dine out or takeout for us
. Do you have a TV in your bedroom?
Do you have a TV in your bedroom?
. Who rules the remote?
Who rules the remote?
Neither of us — we take turns deciding
We like all the same TV, so we almost always agree on what to watch
. Who chooses the movies more often?
Who chooses the movies more often?
We take turns
We have the same taste, so we mostly agree