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WOMEN
1. All the single ladies (and those in relationships), put your hands up!
All anonymity will be ensured. We appreciate your involvement! Results will be published nationally.
1
. Who are you? (Feel free to use an alias instead of your name!)
Who are you? (Feel free to use an alias instead of your name!)
Nickname:
Profession
City:
Country:
Email Address (optional)
2
. Why do you think so many men are still single?
Why do you think so many men are still single?
Afraid of commitment
Got burned by an ex-girlfriend
There are too many options for me to want to settle down
Afraid of marriage
Just hasn't met the right person yet
3
. Why are you still single?
Why are you still single?
Are still hung up on your ex
Enjoy casual sex / casual relationships too much to settle down
Haven't met anyone and believe there's a Man Drought situation
Don't trust men and are afraid of commitment
Other (please specify)
4
. When it comes to men, dating, sex and relationships, what is your biggest question, fear and gripe?
When it comes to men, dating, sex and relationships, what is your biggest question, fear and gripe?
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. When it comes to men, you generally ...
When it comes to men, you generally ...
Play hard to get
Enjoy doing "the chase" to get them
Have too many options to settle down
Are always in long-term monogamous relationships
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. The most important thing to you right now is ...
The most important thing to you right now is ...
Finding a boyfriend
Finding a husband
Having kids
Focusing on your career
Being single and enjoying everything single life has to offer
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. Most of the men you date are
Most of the men you date are
Nice guys
Bad boys
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. IF you answered bad boys, do you think you are addicted to dating bad boys?
IF you answered bad boys, do you think you are addicted to dating bad boys?
Yes
No
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. When it comes to casual sex you ...
When it comes to casual sex you ...
Always say no - you don't believe in it
You like to indulge in it occasionally but never expect anything to come from it
You like to have casual sex often and don't get emotionally connected
Whenever you have casual sex, you know you get emotionally connected so you only do it if you really like someone
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. Do you have a booty call buddy?
Do you have a booty call buddy?
Yes
No
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. IF you have a booty call buddy, are they ...
IF you have a booty call buddy, are they ...
A random you see occasionally
An ex you like to have sex with now and then
Someone you're into but they don't want commitment so you've agree to a booty call relationship
Someone who is into you but you don't like so you've agreed to a casual sex relationship
12
. Would you
Yes
No
Date someone outside your religion
Would you Date someone outside your religion Yes
No
Marry someone outside your religion
Marry someone outside your religion Yes
No
13
. When do you normally sleep with a man?
When do you normally sleep with a man?
First date
I go by the "third date rule"
After one month
After three months
After three to six months
Waiting for marriage
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. If you don't "put out" on the third date, do you worry he'll dump you? Do guys expect it? Share your tales!
If you don't "put out" on the third date, do you worry he'll dump you? Do guys expect it? Share your tales!
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. If you do sleep with a guy on the first date, do you worry that ...
If you do sleep with a guy on the first date, do you worry that ...
He'll think of you as nothing more than a one-night stand
That he won't call you the next day
That he won't consider you to be girlfriend material
You don't worry about anything! Modern women can do what they like!
Other (please specify)
16
. If you sleep with a guy on the first date and he doesn't call you, do you generally find that it was because ...
If you sleep with a guy on the first date and he doesn't call you, do you generally find that it was because ...
He was only after one thing
He is dating a few people at once
He is seriously too busy with work to pick up the phone
He's playing "the game" with you
He's waiting for you to call
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. How many women do you think it's acceptable for a man to have slept with?
How many women do you think it's acceptable for a man to have slept with?
1-5
6-10
11-20
21-30
31-40
41-50
50+
18
. How many men have YOU slept with?
How many men have YOU slept with?
1-5
6-10
11-20
21-30
41-50
50+
19
. what do you classify as him having too much baggage?
what do you classify as him having too much baggage?
Having kids
Having a failed marriage/engagement
having a psycho ex or ex-girlfriend issues
Commitment-phobia
Other (please specify)
20
. What turns you off about a man?
What turns you off about a man?
Smoking
Drinking
Being unemployed
Being rude to the waiter
Being overweight
Mummy's boy
Please write your #1 turn off below
21
. When it comes to being picked up in a bar...
When it comes to being picked up in a bar...
You hate a man to approach you in a bar and think it will never amount to anything
You don't mind as long as he doesn't use cheesy one-liners
You love it because it's the only way to meet someone
You think women should make the first move
22
. When you go on a first date with a guy, what's on your mind?
When you go on a first date with a guy, what's on your mind?
You're just after a free dinner and some good company
You want to get to know him better
You're wondering if he's husband material and are sussing him out as the future father of your children
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. Things men should never do on the first date
Things men should never do on the first date
Be rude to the waiter
Talk about sex
Tell you he's got mummy issues
Talk about his ex
Other (please specify)
24
. When it comes to paying on the first date
When it comes to paying on the first date
Men should always pay
Women should pay
We should split the bill
Men should pay but she should offer
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. Reasons why you think a man didn't call you after a date
Reasons why you think a man didn't call you after a date
He lost your number
He's busy at work
He doesn't like me
He had a girlfriend
I did something wrong on the date
He was dating several people at once
Other (please specify)
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. After a date, if a guy hasn't called, do you call or text him ...
After a date, if a guy hasn't called, do you call or text him ...
That night
The next day
Two days later
Three days later
You wait a week and if he hasn't called, you make contact
Never! If a guy doesn't call, you never call him
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. When you start dating someone that you might be into... how many other people would you be dating at the same time?
When you start dating someone that you might be into... how many other people would you be dating at the same time?
"I'm a one-at-a-time type gal"
AT least two men at once
3-5
6 or more - I like to keep my options open
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. How long after you've been dating would you ask a guy to be exclusive?
How long after you've been dating would you ask a guy to be exclusive?
Two dates
Before you sleep together
After you've slept together
One month
Two months to three months
Three to six months
Until HE brings it up, you don't assume or ask anything
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. Living together
Yes
No
Should you live together before getting engaged / married?
Living together Should you live together before getting engaged / married? Yes
No
Is it the woman's role to keep the household clean, tidy and cook?
Is it the woman's role to keep the household clean, tidy and cook? Yes
No
Do you believe pre-nups are a necessity?
Do you believe pre-nups are a necessity? Yes
No
30
. Cheating...
Yes
No
Have you ever cheated on someone?
Cheating... Have you ever cheated on someone? Yes
No
Have you ever been cheated on?
Have you ever been cheated on? Yes
No
Do you think it's ever acceptable for either sex to cheat?
Do you think it's ever acceptable for either sex to cheat? Yes
No
31
. Why do men cheat?
Why do men cheat?
Not getting enough sex in the relationship
Because the opportunity presented itself and it was too good to pass up
Bored
They were drunk
Fell in love with someone else
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. What do you define as cheating?
That's fine with you
You don't mind too much, as long as he's honest
You might accept this if he apologises
Unforgivable
Kissing but no sex
What do you define as cheating? Kissing but no sex That's fine with you
You don't mind too much, as long as he's honest
You might accept this if he apologises
Unforgivable
Flirting on the internet
Flirting on the internet That's fine with you
You don't mind too much, as long as he's honest
You might accept this if he apologises
Unforgivable
Oral sex
Oral sex That's fine with you
You don't mind too much, as long as he's honest
You might accept this if he apologises
Unforgivable
Sex with a stranger
Sex with a stranger That's fine with you
You don't mind too much, as long as he's honest
You might accept this if he apologises
Unforgivable
Paying for sex
Paying for sex That's fine with you
You don't mind too much, as long as he's honest
You might accept this if he apologises
Unforgivable
33
. Do you believe there is a man drought? Why do you think men are reluctant these days to settle down?
Do you believe there is a man drought? Why do you think men are reluctant these days to settle down?
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. My idea of a perfect boyfriend would be ...
My idea of a perfect boyfriend would be ...
35
. Have you ever or do you ...
Yes
No
Pickup men via Facebook
Have you ever or do you ... Pickup men via Facebook Yes
No
Dump a date via Facebook
Dump a date via Facebook Yes
No
Dump a date via text
Dump a date via text Yes
No
Watch porn
Watch porn Yes
No
Fantasize about having a threesome
Fantasize about having a threesome Yes
No
Say "I love you" first to someone before they've said it to you
Say "I love you" first to someone before they've said it to you Yes
No
Dump a date via email
Dump a date via email Yes
No
Lie about the number of men you've slept with
Lie about the number of men you've slept with Yes
No
Have a threesome
Have a threesome Yes
No
36
. Would you ever date ...
Yes
No
Your booty call buddy
Would you ever date ... Your booty call buddy Yes
No
Your boss
Your boss Yes
No
Someone you met online
Someone you met online Yes
No
A man that has slept with over 50 woman
A man that has slept with over 50 woman Yes
No
A man that has slept with one of your friends
A man that has slept with one of your friends Yes
No
A man with a girlfriend
A man with a girlfriend Yes
No
A married man
A married man Yes
No
37
. Which range includes your age?
Which range includes your age?
Younger than 18
18 - 24
25 - 34
35 - 44
45 - 54
55 - 64
65 or older
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