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. In your opinion, which of these do NOT constitute a significant marital infidelity? Choose as many as applicable. (Unless otherwise specified, assume that each of these actions stands alone, is not repeated, and is not symptomatic of continuing urges or tendencies. Also assume that any sex act was protected. Those in gay relationships know how to adjust the questions so as to make your answers meaningful. Please do so.)
In your opinion, which of these do NOT constitute a significant marital infidelity? Choose as many as applicable. (Unless otherwise specified, assume that each of these actions stands alone, is not repeated, and is not symptomatic of continuing urges or tendencies. Also assume that any sex act was protected. Those in gay relationships know how to adjust the questions so as to make your answers meaningful. Please do so.)
1. At least once a week for a year, husband spends his lunch hour at a motel, having sex with a woman coworker.
2. Husband has a single motel-room sexual encounter with a woman coworker.
3. Husband on a business trip, lonely and depressed, finds a nice woman his own age, they have sex once, do not see each other or correspond again.
4. Same scenario as above, but husband was really intoxicated, and genuinely feels terrible about it the next morning.
5. The Clinton corollary. Once, from a woman coworker, after a party that obviously got out of hand.
6. Husband, out of town, visits a prostitute.
7. Husband shares a passionate kiss with a woman acquaintance.
8. Husband has a long walk with a woman acquaintance, holding hands, talking about their strong feelings for each other.
9. Husband gives a woman coworker a sorta sensual backrub, or accepts one.
10. Husband undresses a woman with his eyes.
11. Husband has lunch with a woman coworker; their relationship is such that they eat off each others’ plates, unbidden.
12. Husband carries on a long, somewhat flirtatious email correspondence with a woman, sharing secrets and deeply personal observations. No physical contact at all.
13. Husband confides to a close guy friend some serious disappointments with his wife, and his longings for a change in their relationship.
14. They all constitute significant marital infidelity.
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. If you substitute "wife" for "husband" and adjust the other sexes appropriately in each of the above answers, would your answers change? Be honest.
If you substitute "wife" for "husband" and adjust the other sexes appropriately in each of the above answers, would your answers change? Be honest.
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Yes, I would allow greater latitude for the spouse in question, finding fewer things that constitute an infidelity.
Yes, I would allow less latitude for the spouse in question, finding more things that constitute an infidelity.
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. We direct your attention specifically to item 13 in the first question, the one about confessing to a friend one's disappointments in one's spouse. Assuming the confessor is a member of your sex, how do you answer that one?
We direct your attention specifically to item 13 in the first question, the one about confessing to a friend one's disappointments in one's spouse. Assuming the confessor is a member of your sex, how do you answer that one?
Yes, it is a marital infidelity.
No, it is not a marital infidelity.
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. How many of the things in the first question have you done, vis a vis a spouse or significant other?
How many of the things in the first question have you done, vis a vis a spouse or significant other?
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